He won’t communicate and will kill our marriage in the long run
He sits and stews about something, I don’t know what because he refuses to tell me. I’m supposed to be his best friend but I know he just be putting on. He doesn’t have to put on and now I know that he has probably been putting on this whole time about our whole relationship. He is right we should have waited to learn more about each other. I just thought I could trust him and he was being honest with me. Now I see that I am still a fool. I need a bottle. I can’t take this and I don’t deserve this!
@lay86lay unfortunately, I think I know exactly what you mean. Being on both sides, the one that keeps silent. But more frustrating, the one that cries for communication, some sort of relationship, but receives none. Seeing how the relationship declines to endless frustration micro-communications. It's amazing how complicated a simple sentence becomes when the gestures are over-layered. Each word, each expression had endless layers of hidden implications.