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@Lolo33

Thanks for sharing. That sounds like a frustrating experience to go through. I'd be worried to about why he goes talking to this other girl and is lying about it. I've personally went through a similar experience myself. Despite the distance, you still feel upset and that there's something wrong. Yet, you don't want to stir the pot and make things worse. It's almost being trapped without a good solution. And that leads to the questioning about his actions and your guys' future. 'Why would he sacrafice us for someone far away?'

My best wishes in your situation. I hope you find a good solution for you. I would say to message me, but I'm on the teen side of things. Maybe you could find an awesome listener on that side to help you. <3 Good luck.

@Lolo33

Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. There's a few things I would like to point out;

So I just found out my boyfriend has been talking to this girl who I told him from the beginning I didnt like because it makes me feel uncomfortable(in thebeginning of us dating I saw texts between them 2 that friends dont say to each other) (This is a mixture of both, I sense you might have felt some sort of threat or fear regarding this other girl, and also he was inappropiate during those text conversations) and he sed ok and blocked her...come to find out hes been secretly talking to her the whole time! (This is going to cause you to mistrust him because he hasn't been honest about this situation) And we been dating for a year now! He lied at first n then wen I showed him proof he says we dont even text like that anymore we been friend since middle school but all the texts are deleted so wat r u hiding then??? (I could understand you felt angry and anxious after finding all of this out, its a very frustrating experience. I'm sensing he didn't handle things properly here and used defensiveness which will make you feel disconnected from him. The text being deleted is very suspicious, if he has nothing to hide then why delete the text?) N wen hes wit me he has her blocked n wen hes not with me he unblocks her...(This kind of tells me there's something going on there, perhaps he is too attached to her or it could be something else) and she even lives in a different state!!...like y would u choose to talk to a female that makes me ur woman uncomfortable (Again this is a mixture of both, I could see why you are feeling frustrated about this situation, but I'm sensing you are afraid of losing him to this other girl) n jeopardize our relationhip over someone who doesnt even live near us?!...so this morning as hes packing I didnt stop him or say anything I was just so angry n hurt n betrayed...(Well you did the right thing here by letting him go) were done cuz I cant trust him after that but I just hope this is the right thing for me to do...(It's understandable how you feel, it's normal to not trust him after he hasn't been honest with this situation) it just sucks n hurts so bad!! Cuz I really thought this was it n we were gunna get married n have a family n all 😞