Too many red flags
Recently, I have been writing about disabled man who seemed nice on a surface but has lots of issues of his own. I recognized that the relationship would have been abusive
1. Though I didn't really know him, he was very pushy about having a relationship with him either romantically or physically
2. He disrespected my boundaries by throwing a fit everytime I mentioned getting to know him in a group setting
3. He accused me of being scared of him
4. I felt icky after both times after we talked
5. He told me that he wants to prove to me that he's a loving man who protects the ladies
6. My friends told me that he has a temper
7. He told that that he has evidently been in jail for that temper
8. He is close friends an an ex frenemy of mine and her friend who hate me
Before dropping him, I had given several hints that I was not interested in him because I was not comfortable with his behavior. For the most part I mainly ignored him and dropped one word responses. When he asked me most recently, I told him that it was not in the cards for us to go out. When he said once again he wanted to be friends, I stuck to my boundaries. When he threw another tantrum, I told him that I am not interested and he agreed that he won't bother me anymore. I ended up deciding to block his number and his profile on social media because I just don't have time for people like that. Based on his history, he's too immature for me and nor is he dating material.
@Summershy
Agreed. Red flags indeed. I'm glad you're able to stand your ground and stick to your boundaries 💜 respect!