Trust issues
My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years the first half I was all in and had no doubts he was my match. I was given a rude awakening to find out he had been cheating on me the entire time. We split up for a few months and he came back saying he was determined to change. I will say he’s made significant changes but his ex’s persistence to wedge herself into his life has made me go a little crazy. She moved in with his mom despite him contesting it. She randomly sends girls to his social media accounts to flirt with him to attempt to lure him into drama and screen shit it and send it to me. She randomly texts my phone to get in my head. He’s blocked her on everything and I’ve now done the same to try snd protect my sanity but she just keeps on. I find myself blaming him for her attempts to reconnect. It has us arguing when that’s not our typical behavior. It has me snooping through his phone to see if he’s cheating or who he’s talking with. I’m so confused snd so stressed. I just want to get back to myself confidence and breath without fear and anxiety again. I need help 🤦🏼♀️😭
@Nikki930
Hello, I see it is a very sad situation for you realising he's been cheating for so long. And to hear his girlfriend was behaving like that sounds very very upsetting, I am so sorry to hear someone could be that mean. I understand why you find yourself blaming him, and he was cheating on you for so long and wants to come back for you, so it is understandable why it is very hard for you to trust him. It's okie to be scared and stressed and confused and we're all here for you. I hope you're able to find some hope and things get a bit settled and calmer soon.
Also I've moved this post to 'Share your Story' section since it isn't very relevant to AMAs and Special events. I hope you don't mind and please feel free to ask any questions to me or any other R&F leader here
