I told my crush that I like him
I had a crush on that guy for a year and he finally invited me to a concert. I thought he liked me and maybe it was a date but when we were there he told me that he has a date with a girl the next day. He also walked me to the station after the concert, stayed up until I get home and texted me good night. I was confused (and still am). I decided to tell him that i like him so I would know if he likes me or not.
I told him that I like him after a couple of weeks. He said “ I don’t really like girls” but he had a date with a girl and he said that he is bisexual. I am still confused. I know he rejected me but I cant stop thinking that maybe he likes or liked me.
It is really rare for me to like someone and I really liked him
and I don’t feel like I ever will like someone again. I have been crying and depressed for more than a month.
How do I get rid of this feeling? Am I being unreasonable by thinking he might like me? Any suggestions or comments?
@limeCake5693
I know it is rough when you like a person a certain way and they simply like you in a friendly way
i think he is trying to be nice and not hurt your feelings but in the end that did not work ..... maybe he thought the idea of being bisexual was not OK with you and you would want exclusive and he is not ready for that ...... while perhaps there were a few mixed signals try not to pin more hopes on it as it will cause you to not be able to move on .
I agree with toughTiger, I feel their response wasn't being clear and was trying to not hurt your feelings. I am sorry that you've been crying over all this. But it WILL get better. Maybe take some time for yourself and in due time be in a friend level with him. He seems cordial as he waited with you until you got home. Who knows maybe the friendship part is better. But do not be so tough on yourself.
@limeCake5693. I am sorry it sadly sometimes happens that no matter how hard you try the other person just isn't interested you have to just move on and learn from it good luck
@limeCake5693 you need to confront him and clear things up, he clearly is in a one way argument with himself so if you can put him in a position where he's conflicting his own statements then he'll have no choice but to confess that he was either lying or how he really feels.
good luck :) if you evr need to talk just dm me! lots of love
@limeCake5693 unfortunately, feelings take time to get rid of. honestly, from my experience, I think he was leading you on so you are not being unreasonable by thinking he might like you. I hope you have a good day <3
