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[What Do I Do?] I want to confront someone, but I'm scared...

User Profile: Laura
Laura July 19th, 2018

It can be scary to confront people because....

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User Profile: Angelheart42
Angelheart42 July 30th, 2018

You don't know how the other person can react.

User Profile: Epictetus
Epictetus July 31st, 2018

People are people, and we are people too. You cant control their reaction to your actions or words; but you can can control your mind and your thinking. So, keep focus on your thoughts and dont worry about what other people do or react. What it is in our control and what we cant control. I think that finding the edge between this parameter can make us less stressed and more mindful.

User Profile: tallSugar4889
tallSugar4889 August 8th, 2018

they target you they find out your weakness and do things to you even of they at fault

User Profile: Lolowise475
Lolowise475 August 14th, 2018

sometimes people you thought you could trust have their own agenda.

User Profile: TreaureSeekers3
TreaureSeekers3 August 15th, 2018

They likely to be in control of me, put me down or say something behind my back. Judge me not even there or when I go .little things . Not wanting to talk to me .hate that I'm not confident.

User Profile: ziionaa
ziionaa August 15th, 2018

it's not gaurenteed you'll be the same at the end

User Profile: MelanieDaniels63
MelanieDaniels63 August 15th, 2018

Because you never know how the other person is going to react to you. You do not know if they will yell etc...

User Profile: creativeCar6208
creativeCar6208 August 17th, 2018

I realize that I might not know everything about what I am going to confront them about and I don't have any way of providing a comeback with new information... I also don't want to look like someone who is wrong all the time.

User Profile: TreaureSeekers3
TreaureSeekers3 August 18th, 2018

That your feel betrayed and people will let you down if you cling to them which I've learnt and been hurt of and if seeking help they don't wanna know .

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User Profile: tallSugar4889
tallSugar4889 September 7th, 2018

I have to agree with you there i always feel like that end of making a fool out of myself in the process to @TreaureSeekers3

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User Profile: MarcelK
MarcelK August 19th, 2018

People may become aggressive from the bloom. They might misundertand something said and become defensive.