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Being Safer When You Self Harm: Harm Minimisation

User Profile: EtaAlpha
EtaAlpha December 14th, 2016

Trigger Warning: This article is going to discuss ideas and concepts you may find triggering. Please only read on if you feel able to cope with these triggers. <3

DISCLAIMER:

I am not a qualified doctor. Nothing in this article is intended to replace the advice of a suitably qualified professional. If you are struggling with self harm I strongly urge you to seek help from your GP, school counsellor or another medical practitioner.

What is Harm Minimisation?

Harm minimisation is exactly what it sounds like, attempting to reduce the damage someone does to themselves when they self harm.

Are you saying its okay to harm yourself?

No! In this post I am attempting to acknowledge the fact that sometimes, no matter how hard we try to distract ourselves, people recovering from self harm can sometimes slip up. I would encourage you to do everything you can to distract yourself from self harming, however, for many people, complete abstinence is just not the reality. This post is for those people, to try and keep them as safe as they can be navigating the difficult road to recovery.

Never:

- Self harm under the influence of any alcohol or drugs.

- Take any tablets (‘self-poison) in order to self harm. There are no safe overdoes, even small ones can kill.

- Share anything you use to self-injure

- Cut yourself where major arteries and veins are close to the surface. Please, learn a little anatomy!

- Eat hair you pull out.

Always:

- Keep a well-stocked first aid kit with whatever you use to harm.

- Use sterilized blades to avoid risk of infection. (Leave them in boiling water)

- Know when to seek medical help.

- Understand what shock is and how to recognise it.

Other Advice:

- Try to reduce the severity of your injuries, e.g. scratching or pinching instead of cutting, snaping a rubber band against your arm.

- Have a plan for what to do if you go too far and are unable to treat your own injuries.

- Keep a phone nearby when you harm, in case you have to call the emergency services.

- Keep up to date with your tetanus vaccine.

More on First Aid:

First aid for cuts and grazes

First aid for severe bleeding

First aid for burns

Shock

A Basic First Aid Kit:

- Basic first aid book or leaflet

- Sterile dressings

- Bandages

- Plasters

- Medical Tape

- Medical scissors

- Antiseptic wipes/spray

- Adhesive skin closure strips, e.g. steri-strips.

- Clingfilm (to cover over burns)

This post is not exhaustive and there is a lot more I would like to cover, especially in relation to first aid. Sources of information I have used and good articles for further reading are: here, here, here, here.

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User Profile: Hopeful0001
Hopeful0001 December 14th, 2016

@EtaAlpha

Awesome resource!

User Profile: Rosiexx
Rosiexx January 14th, 2017

@EtaAlpha

Thank you this is really helpful! Some people may also find holding an ice cube in their hand and focusing on it instead of self harming useful~

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User Profile: EtaAlpha
EtaAlpha OP January 15th, 2017

@Rosiexx Yes, definitely, that's a great alternative :) I've heard some people suggest dyeing the water red helps with the visual aspect too

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User Profile: Josie234
Josie234 February 8th, 2017

This is so helpful, glad you made this :)

User Profile: LeetheUnicorn
LeetheUnicorn March 5th, 2017

I have Actually Gave this resource to a few of my regulars and it helped so much, Now a few of then are weeks clean!

User Profile: SettledBreathing
SettledBreathing March 11th, 2017

This was a very useful and interesting read! I think harm minimization is often looked over in favour of going cold turkey, which is not possible right away in some cases. Thank you!

User Profile: witchandbones
witchandbones March 28th, 2017

Neosporin is great

User Profile: creativeCamp2095
creativeCamp2095 April 13th, 2017

good advice

User Profile: supportivePanda99
supportivePanda99 June 4th, 2017

This is super important for an person who self harms. Thanks for sharing and bringing awareness to this important issue.

User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou July 6th, 2022

Bump to this helpful post. ❤ and lots of love to everyone coming across. ❤

User Profile: SilverMistakes
SilverMistakes March 2nd, 2023


This is such a helpful post!!! I hope all of us who needs it , comes across this beautiful post ❤️. If you ever come back from your break , i hope you know how much you have helped through this