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Know Your Fears - PH1 "WHILE STUDYING"

User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc July 26th, 2015

A WHILE STUDYING INITIATIVE

Know your Fears (Phase 1): Now Going On

Solve Your Fears(Phase 2) : NEXT WEEK 7 DAY LONG DISCUSSION(2nd August to 8th August)

Fight your Fears(Phase 3) : 7 DAY LONG SELF ASSESMENT (9th August To 15th August)

Sometime Back I asked myself what is Life?

I was answered by a corner of my mind. It reads

"Life is Giving your Best

In what you Love

Even If it Fails

Don't Fear to Get Up."

There's an Saying from a Chinese Military General Sun Tzu If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.

Well Most of us are Studying, And Trust me when I say that sometimes its really really tough, Sometimes it Just Goes over your head and you just wanna QUIT IT! Like I Have Had Enough of your BEEEP (CENSORED lol)

So here I came out with this crazy plan to ask you each and every one of you, Two Questions?

(Don't worry No-matter how old you are. You'll be able to answer cause I know that you have gone through phases sometime in your life. Dude its Normal!)

So I say to you, lets #FACEIT! Today here #RightNow!

Questions

>What is that Number 1 Problem YOU face when you are studying?(Mine Being Distraction)

>What is that Number 1 Fear YOU Have when the word study comes in your head?(Fear that I will end up doing nothing)

Ask yourself and when you get that RAW answer Post it out Here.

And as a Community we will face it.

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User Profile: RavenousSoul
RavenousSoul July 29th, 2015

My fear is that I'll never be good enough in anything I do, or good enough for anyone. I try so hard to meet my expectations, and when I fall short, I get discouraged and depressed. I feel like a failure. I feel like I'll never reach my goals. I want to hide, because I'm ashamed of my shortcomings. I feel like I'm letting people down. I have let people down. Sometimes I feel like it's all futile.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 29th, 2015

@RavenousSoul - Friend thanks for sharing.

You have fear of Failing & Motivational Issues right?

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User Profile: HelpfulScotsman
HelpfulScotsman July 29th, 2015

I fear that no matter how hard I try I am always below average. I try my hardest at about everything that I do yet I am always treated like another idiot.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 29th, 2015

@HelpfulScotsman - Do you think the Grading system as anything to do with it?

Getting Judged is a really bad feeling.

Sending you Hugs!

User Profile: johnphan7Cups
johnphan7Cups July 31st, 2015

Probably you havent found something that you really have talent with?

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User Profile: thinlovelythunder
thinlovelythunder July 29th, 2015

I'm afraid that if I don't get help I may not be around much longer.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 29th, 2015

@thinlovelythunder Friend I suggest you speak to one of our listeners Immidiately.

Will try our best don't worry!

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User Profile: happy1320
happy1320 July 29th, 2015

My fears is I will die alone without friends or family around because I keep on pushing people away 😭

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 29th, 2015

@happy1320 , friend we are with you. Try to lean on us for support.

Thanks

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User Profile: Miimii0318
Miimii0318 July 29th, 2015

My fear is change. I'm scared to be alone,or will I ever find someone that will be good to me. Will he be happier with someone else when I tried so long and hard to make him happy. The fears of What if!

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@Miimii0318 friend you showed some vital aspects , I But here if I was you I would have waited for someone to make me happy first then Ill try my share.

Because not that im selfish but that Im learnt from my mistakes, we give our best to the persons we love without knowting that they will value our true worth or not.

hope you are doning good.

Hugs!

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User Profile: MetalStory
MetalStory July 29th, 2015

Procrastination is the biggest enemy of any student, I'm no exception here.

I really want to study but every time I try to start something happens in my mind and I do some other thing and then its a cycle, I end up doing nothing.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@MetalStory , Thanks for participating friend , so for you Procrastination is the issue right?

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User Profile: Amelia
Amelia July 29th, 2015

@samc95xc

I would say that my number 1 problem is procrastination.

My biggest fear is typically that the minor TBI (traumatic brain injury) from a few years ago will cause problems again.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@RocketsMom sorry to hear about your TBI, we are with you friend.

And truly Procrastination is a big issue here.

Thanks for participating and helping me and the community.

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User Profile: Amelia
Amelia July 30th, 2015

@samc95xc--thank you. It was very mild and I worked with doctors to regain most of what I had lost and learn new ways to do a few things. My functioning is almost the same as it was prior to it. But, that fear is always there....that, what if it causes a problem. Gotta love anxiety!

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User Profile: scarletguy5810
scarletguy5810 July 29th, 2015

I think what I'm most afraid of is not doing right, or doing something that will effect me negatively for the rest of my career.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@scarletguy5810 - Friend so you worry about not getting the right career counselling

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User Profile: AmandaXx33
AmandaXx33 July 29th, 2015

I would have to say that my number one fear in school and as a student was failure. It's very broad to say, but I always put lots of pressure on me because throughout my hard work i've had some putdowns and disappointing moments and I get so anxious it seems as if im a perfectionist. Nobody puts on the pressure except for me. I can relate with anybody who does the same thing!

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@AmandaXx33 Thans for taking part mate!

So for you the Number One Fear is of Failure even giving much effort right?

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User Profile: RagingSublimity
RagingSublimity July 29th, 2015

The dark.

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User Profile: samc95xc
samc95xc OP July 30th, 2015

@RagingSublimity friend I strongly suggest you to talk to our listeners out there.

They can be your light for that darkness.

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