New Member trying to Heal

@Motherofplants182

I can only imagine what you've been through and still are going through. So glad you are out of this abusive marriage!  It takes a lot of courage and strength to survive a disfunctional relationship and you can be very proud of yourself. You deserve better, you deserve to live a peaceful life! I hope that you will find the support your need here on the site. 

It can help you to read about how others deal with similar situations, this is a link to our support for family relationships https://www.7cups.com/forum/FamilyCaregiverSupport_191/SupportforFamilyRelationships_1722/

You will find self-help guides here https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php

This is a link for a self-love meditation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5RUIKTXQk4A

Know you have people here who want to support you. 💙 

@Motherofplants182 Sorry to hear about the divorce and him bad mouthing you. I've always believed that people who know us will see through the lies the person is saying about us. And, I suggest the same to you. Try moving on with your life best you can, keep mind busy with productive activities with the intention to grow in all aspects of your life. 

Being away from  the abusive relationship, you feel free and more at peace which is a huge positive. You can only focus on your actions as that's in your control. Do good, be good and hope for the best! Do message me directly if you wish to chat about all this. 

@Motherofplants182

I'm so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It takes a lot of courage to reach out and share what you're experiencing. Please know that you’re not alone, and this community is here to support you. It's heartbreaking that you’re facing such difficult circumstances, especially after everything you've been through. It’s important to take care of yourself right now—lean on friends, seek professional help if you can, and remember that it's okay to ask for support. If you ever need to talk, feel free to reach out to me or any other active listener here on 7cups, whenever you want. You deserve peace and happiness, and this tough time doesn’t define you. We're here for you, sending you strength and love. 

@Motherofplants182

The painful circumstances that we will undoubtedly encounter during our lives are intended to provide a significantly stronger version of ourselves. The terrible psychological aches you are experiencing now, my dear, are the birth pangs that will undoubtedly result in a heroic version of your prior self.