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Outside Your Comfort Zone

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 15th, 2024
  • What are some strategies that help you to step out of your comfort zone?


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 April 15th, 2024

@soulsings

Positive self talk helps me a lot to get out of my comfort zone. Sometimes I also make an assessment of what could happens and what to do then. 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 16th, 2024

@amiablePeace77 very insightful. 

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 16th, 2024

@amiablePeace77 that's actually really clever ❤

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 16th, 2024

@soulsings I don't really go out of my comfort zone🤔🤔 I don't know how to answer this🤔

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 16th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 I am fine with you not going outside your comfort zone. No problem.

If you do not mind me asking, what happens when you encounter a situation at 7 Cups that is beyond what you normally feel comfortable with?  This may be a time where you do go outside your comfort zone. 



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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 17th, 2024

@souls oh yeah! When I upset someone on cup s, especially with my humour. I also get upset and really down for a day or two. But then I bounce back😁 cause I realise I'm doing my best, and that's good enough.

if there's any drama though, I choose to stay out of it completely. I don't like drama.

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga April 16th, 2024

@soulsings

What are some strategies that help you to step out of your comfort zone?

Resignation, optimism, curiosity, confidence.....

There again, "comfort zone" is a new way to describe an old feeling. 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 April 16th, 2024

@Fradiga ooo! I have those, I'm optimistic and curious. And confident.. Well sometimes. I don't know what resignation means. So does that mean I step out of my comfort zone in those areas🤔🤔

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 16th, 2024

@Fradiga tiny posed the same questions I had: What do you mean by resignation? Can you give us an example pleasse

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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga April 17th, 2024

@soulsings

The feeling you have when you shrug

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User Profile: LisaMeighanMScGMBPsS
LisaMeighanMScGMBPsS April 17th, 2024

This is an interesting thread @Soulsings! When I step outside of my comfort zone, I use my own prior knowledge of events to guide me and help to calm my nerves. I also use positive affirmations and visualisations to help me through stepping outside my comfort zone. I try to visualise a positive outcome for an event that is causing me to feel anxious and this I find useful.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 18th, 2024

@LisaMeighanMScGMBPsS thank you for sharing stepping outside your comfort zone.

kudos to amiablePeace77 for coming up with the idea for this thread!

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Harrypotterfanandbooknerd April 18th, 2024

@soulsings I am VERY HIGHLY self consious of my looks. When I take a picture of me, where i feel pretty, like this one, it helps me step out of my comfort zone and be more confident.img-20240418-100103_1713452901.jpg

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User Profile: TheGambitSystem
TheGambitSystem April 18th, 2024

@Harrypotterfanandbooknerd

you are beautiful!!! -💛

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Harrypotterfanandbooknerd April 18th, 2024

Thank you❤❤❤ You are too!

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User Profile: PurpleFlower40
PurpleFlower40 April 18th, 2024

@soulsings My anger, when people annoy or irritate me to do something or to prove them wrong I do it. So I like proving them wrong, and it builds up my motivation.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 18th, 2024

@PurpleFlower40 I hear you. Anger gives me a blown up feeling of power in the moment.

The problem I have with anger is afterwards I feel depleted and or my mind is trying to justify my behavior. And the person I explode onto usually pulls back and maybe even stop being so friendly. I am starting to ask myself if that moment of exhiliration is worth all the consequences that follow. 

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