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Sharing tips on improving our attitude

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 May 20th, 2024


When we're facing many challenges in life it can feel difficult to face the day with a positive attitude. However, there are things we can do on a daily basis to maintain a positive attitude in tough times.  

Let's share some tips on what helps you to have a more positive attitude. 😊


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User Profile: yzzil
yzzil May 20th, 2024

@amiablePeace77

i have a more positive attitude when I think about being a dog mom. They make me so happy. I also try to remind myself of the growth I’ve made, emotionally/mentally in the last 7 years. I’m a different person and it’s helpful to remember!!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 20th, 2024

@yzzil

How many fur kids to you have? 😀

Wonderful that you can look back at the past 7 years in such a positive way! 

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User Profile: yzzil
yzzil May 20th, 2024

@amiablePeace77

i have two wonderful fur babies!!! Love them!!



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User Profile: Fradiga
Fradiga May 20th, 2024

Let's share some tips on what helps you to have a more positive attitude. 😊


I happen to have some opinion about this just because I come from a hyper-rural region (of France) where people do not see their outlooks as negative or positive. We hear a lot of "C'est comme ça" (that's what it is), practically on a Forrest Gump mode, hence it shows resignation - a slightly wavy line rather than a 5-star roller-coaster-like ups and downs. They seem to prefer peace of mind more than determining how they are doing on that mental scale. Yeah, they vent with one another, but don't actually complain or look for validation.

It's not unlike the "it could be worse" - a very English way to roll with it.

Hence I am a rather resigned person (in case you don't know, I'm 72) myself. I like quiet, I like to get on with others, I like my hum-drum activities. I am looking at a foot surgery I should get done and I know that it's NOT going to be easy to manage, but then... what can I do? I need that surgery. This is positive enough an attitude. I don't want to worry in advance.


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 20th, 2024

@Fradiga

Acknowledging that things might not be easy but acknowledging as well that it has to be done in a certain way is a good way to me to face a challenge with strength and less worries. 


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User Profile: alysianna
alysianna May 20th, 2024

@amiablePeace77

Let's share some tips on what helps you to have a more positive attitude. 😊

friends-talking to your friends can help

significant other-talking to a(n) significant other can help

music-music can help you let lose and shake it off

let your emotions out-sometimes you just need to let out all your emotions before yu can have a better tude



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 20th, 2024

@alysianna

Those are helpful ways, thanks for sharing!

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User Profile: alysianna
alysianna May 21st, 2024

@amiablePeace77

np 

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings May 21st, 2024

@amiablePeace77  share some tips on what helps you to have a more positive attitude. 😊

Whenever I get angry thoughts or frustrated thoughts that I am aware of, I ask myself what will be the effect if I unload all that on someone. It will hurt them. I avoid hurting them and I feel better about myself and they feel better about me. 

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 21st, 2024

@soulsings

Nice soul. I feel when we hurt others we always hurt ourselves too, even if we might not realize it.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings May 22nd, 2024

@amiablePeace77 absolutely. Hurting others is like a two edged sword that cuts both ways. 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 21st, 2024

@amiablePeace77 tips on being positive🤔🤔 

1- smile😃 yep! Turn that frown upside down

2. Plenttyyyyyyy of coffee

3. Play pranks on people.. I mean.. Do something nice for people🤓

4. Don't be to serious, have a little fun, show your childish side sometimes

5. Don't be be unhappy cause you want more, be happy for what you have

6. Dive into hobbies or things that you enjoy

7. Take breaks, 5 minute breaks or a week's vacation

8. Cut out all toxic people in your life

9. Slow down enjoy your time, don't rush and miss out on the little things

10. Helping others can bring you great happiness

11. Exercise and sleep well

12. Find someone rich and marry them 

13. Live everyday as if it were your last

theese positivity tips were brought to you by grumpy the dwarf


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 21st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips! (exchanges coffee with water though 😀)

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 21st, 2024

@amiablePeace77 noooo! We need coffee😮😮😂😂😂😂

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User Profile: Izila
Izila May 21st, 2024

@amiablePeace77Thank you for sharing this important discussion! One hting that helps me maintain a positive attitude is practicing gratitude daily. taking a few moments each day to reflect on what I'm thankful for really shifts my perspective😊 what about you?

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 21st, 2024

@healingsoul4892

Feeling gratitude for what we have makes life so much nicer!

I practise gratitude every morning after waking up to start my day in a positive mode. 

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