Toxic people
Hi everyone!
Help me please!!!!
How you deal with toxic people around you? Especially at work!
How can you take care of yourself?
@Tauriel98
I just stay polite but firm in my own opinions and boundaries.
I stay away from drama.
Gossip.
And don't let anyone change my mind 💜💕
@Tauriel98
@Amanda84
I agree with this wholeheartedly. Keep your peace. Do not allow them to disturb it.
Don't engage in their gossip.
If you're able to take breaks, take them away from them & use that time to decompress.
Don't feel the need to fill your time with people that are only going to drain you & not add to your value as a person.
Hope this helps 💗
@convivialAvocado1138
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@convivialAvocado1138
Appreciate it, Thank you 💛
@Tauriel98 my mom is a distraction
@Amanda84
Thank you so much for your opinion ❤
@Tauriel98
A pleasure 💜
@Tauriel98
how to deal with toxic people?....
dont deal with toxic people.
How to take care of yourself?
just love yourself , start drinking lots of water and do things which you love and always remember you deserve happiness.💗
@Harmony272
Thank you for your kind words 💓
@Tauriel98 just make yourself away from them that's it simple
@placidSouth6914
Wish it was that simple :(
@Tauriel98Just block the negativity and assume them at all cost.....
@Joy380
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Stay away from toxic people and drama, venting to a close friend or family helps, also remember that there's people that cause harm intentionally to others, then there's people that cause harm unknowingly because there dealing with there own problems and don't know how to handle it.
@NickHalfDime01
Fair point! Thank you 😊
Hi Tauriel98, thank you for sharing this. I hear that dealing with toxic people, especially at work, is taking a real toll on you. It sounds incredibly exhausting. To help me understand what you're dealing with, could you share a specific example of a recent situation that made you feel the most drained or affected?
@AZRAILOSABEHH
Yeah, like recently one of my co-workers said sth to my manager about a situation that had happened to me! Even though he wasn't even there himself. But he said it like he was there and totally change it to his benefit and kinda dishonored me and disvalude my work!
Act normal and start to put barrier between u and them
Trust who loves you
@AZRAILOSABEHH
Yeah it's the best way!
They show love and support in front of me, but acting opposite of it behind my back!
So you want help
To know how to deal with them
Or help to best way to ignore them
@AZRAILOSABEHH
I don't want their words to have any effect on me! I wish i could be that strong..
If you want my help I will do as much as I can
@Tauriel98
Toxicity is rampant among today’s society. I encourage you, at work, to only focus on you and you alone. Managing feelings can be especially challenging and it helps to talk about them. Everything happens for a reason! I love you
@Bluchuck007
Thank you so much for your kind words 💓
@Tauriel98
Of course! I hope everything continues to go well. Always keep in mind that life is only ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you react! Do not let others get you down. I need to follow my own advice as I’m going through a really bad time right now, too
Don't listen to them if you know they are toxic then why do we even care to spare even a second thinking about them let them be and if they are crossing the line
I don't but I would make them taste their own medicine.
(Plus don't feel distressed it's okay it's life and just because of one moment please don't ruin you entire day or moment LOVE YOU AND YOU GOT THIS 💪)
@aquaVase6096
Tthanks for your support 💓
@Tauriel98 are you ok
@Vigash
I'm trying to be😅
Ooh I love this question.. I would work on creating a mind boundaries. No matter the harsh words or negative things you might hear, I would work on creating a safe, separate inner mental space where I only allow good things in. I know how the mind can wander off into ruminating about what others might say about us but I think this is worth giving a shot. We don’t have to allow what we don’t want into our mind. It’s a mini act of self-care that can go a long way, it shows you value yourself. 💜 🌱
@GentleListenerHere
Really appreciate it, thank you 💓