What our heart need?
What is the difference between what our heart really needs and what our heart really wants?
Is it possible to get both the things?
Is it possible to fulfill our wants and need together?
Share your thoughts. 😊
@HealingHerb thanks for the questions.
I think we have one part of ourselves that has a long list of things it wants just like a list for Santa Claus. Some of those things are impossible to get and some even if we get them we will only give us temporary happiness. Why? Because we think someone else or something else can make me happy even if I am feeling unhappy inside.
I think what we need is to resolve why we feel miserable inside and find acceptance and then we can appreciate more fully what life presents to us.
What do you think?
@soulsings Thankyou so much for sharing your thoughts. 😊 Yes what you said is absolutely right that we should look within ourselves and find out and heal whatever things making ourselves miserable. Self-realization is must. 😊
@HealingHerb glad we found some common ground.
" The Brain and the heart work as one. Even so when the brain's thoughts linger heavy on the heart. The heart's beat continues to touch the brain. Wracking itself for this feeling - both- knowing but not wanting to admit it. The other is always harder to leave unsure if they will be together again. This is what it means to be together- in the world apart. "
[ Love - a silent killer]
I don't think all our wants ever get fulfilled. Some of them do and after that we start wanting more. There is no end to how much the heart wants. Sometimes through experiences we realise the thing we wanted before were not that meaningful and we want different things now so the wants are not even consistent - the heart changes....
@Creamyyy I find that when I think primarily of myself there is an endless list of things I want that never really last a long time if I get them.
Another option is to think of helping others be happy and fulfilled. When I think of others, not just myself, I get a feeling of contentment that seems to last more.
Very thought provoking. Emotional wants and needs is really setting priorities on what is most important regarding your emotions. I would guess that needs are not negotiable, and wants could be. Depending on how you feel about someone might determine how much you expect back from them.
Very thought provoking. Emotional wants and needs is really setting priorities on what is most important regarding your emotions. I would guess that needs are not negotiable, and wants could be. Depending on how you feel about someone might determine how much you expect back from them.
@HealingHerb
Needs- Morally sought after
Wants- Desire
