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Breaking trauma bond with former narcissistic crush- Update

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy August 26th, 2025

Last week, I had a chance to listen to a few other videos regarding that former crush of mine.   Of all the videos, I looked for some videos about breaking the trauma bond with him.  I also did lots of other deeper digging.  At the moment, I am 

1. Unfriending anyone who was associated with this crush on social media

2. Blocking his page

Which is a pretty freeing experience

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 August 26th, 2025

@Summershy

I am so glad you're protecting your emotional well-being! 

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User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP August 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Thank you so much and believe me, the trauma bond is still there.    So I am asking my friends to make sure that I walk away from him. 

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP August 27th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

One other thing

Again, he and I never dated and thank goodness. 

User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP August 29th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

The convention is going on now and I have had a chance to think things through.

For one thing, this convention has gotten to be so big and it's in multiple buildings that there is a slim chance that I would run into him.   

Then I had a chance to really think things through during that last love bomb phase.    During con that year, while he was willing to talk to me if we crossed paths, he really didn't bother calling or texting me. In fact, I saw him flirting with another girl when I was at another panel,.

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User Profile: limegreenSugar9416
limegreenSugar9416 August 27th, 2025

My ex used a knife to harm herself in front of me.

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User Profile: Summershy
Summershy OP August 27th, 2025

@limegreenSugar9416\

That is really scary and I am sorry that you went throught that .  Hugs to you 

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User Profile: Priscella
Priscella October 29th, 2025

How are you doing now?

User Profile: Priscella
Priscella October 29th, 2025

How are you doing now?

User Profile: TiyanaGreenhouse
TiyanaGreenhouse November 27th, 2025

@Summershy Thanks