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A Cup of Tea

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 August 18th, 2021

Nan-in, a Japanese master during the Meiji era (1868-1912), received a university professor who came to inquire about meditation.

Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor’s cup full, and then kept on pouring.

The professor watched the overflow until he no longer could restrain himself. “It is overfull. No more will go in!”

“Like this cup,” Nan-in said, “you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you meditation practice unless you first empty your cup?”

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou August 18th, 2021

Great short story, I feel the take away is that , the " know it all " attitude doesnt take us anywhere ~ one must always be open to new lessons , ideas and perspectives to make the most out of all situations ❤ What do you think ? @amiablePeace77

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 20th, 2021

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

I agree, the more open we are the more we can experience and enjoy life with all diversities.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou August 26th, 2021

Right on , yes Definitely !! @amiablePeace77

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 18th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 being empty is the beginning of a whole new phase of seeing life with new eyes.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 20th, 2021

@soulsings

Well put soulsings!

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User Profile: crimsonChestnut5482
crimsonChestnut5482 August 19th, 2021

@amiablePeace77
@amiablePeace77
I hope I have fewer opinions now than when I was younger, but I suspect I still have too many. And speculation is what I am sure I do in this age because things are so uncertain. It's a cautionary sort of thing. And I will think on it for some hours tonight. I work at night and the work keeps my hands busy while I do my best to reflect on things. So tonight I will work on getting rid of so many opinions and speculations. Thank you for the question!!

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 19th, 2021

@crimsonChestnut5482 I find mindfulness helps me get over the glamor of opinions. They seem to fall away. When I try to fight them it is like an internal battle.

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User Profile: bubblyMusic8287
bubblyMusic8287 August 19th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 I think the more we grow older the more we become like the cup which is overflowed. we become opinionated, judgemental, and sometimes and bit crude. it is indeed hard to empty your cups but it's not impossible. as long as there is a realization that maybe I could have also done something wrong or maybe something could have been better the preconceptions that we have could possibly be emptied out.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 20th, 2021

@bubblyMusic8287

It's truly helpful to look at things from different angles, sometimes the whole picture changes.

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User Profile: bubblyMusic8287
bubblyMusic8287 August 25th, 2021

@amiablePeace77 yes indeed smiley

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User Profile: jaime45
jaime45 August 24th, 2021

This is good info

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 24th, 2021

@jaime45

Glad you enjoyed it. There will be many more stories so don't forget to check it again laugh

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