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Trauma Support Community Check-In for February 2024

User Profile: audienta
audienta February 2nd, 2024

Hello everyone,

welcome to this month's check-in! Feel free to answer the questions below and share with us how you're doing.


Trauma Support Community Check-In for February 2024

1) What is your favourite: sunrise or sunset? Why?

2) What is the main thing in your life you'd like to change?

3) What is one step you can take to get closer to this change?


If you have a question you'd like me to ask at the next check-in, please let me know!

Take care,

audienta


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User Profile: wontwakewontsleep
wontwakewontsleep February 2nd, 2024

@audienta

My favorite is sunrise. When I go visit my dad, I have to drive a couple of days. It's always nice to see the sunrise from the road. 

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP February 3rd, 2024

@wontwakewontsleep

Wow, driving for multiple days sounds exhausting. I like the sunrise too. 

User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 27th, 2024

@wontwakewontsleep

i understand this! i travel a lot too! the worst part tho is when its too dark to read ):

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User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 4th, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favourite: sunrise or sunset? Why? Sunrise. It's the start to a new day. 

2) What is the main thing in your life you'd like to change? My health issues, both mental and physical, just to be healthy

3) What is one step you can take to get closer to this change? Working on self care and helping myself get better 

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP February 4th, 2024

@Bunnylovesyou

It's nice to hear that you like the sunrise that brings a new day. I totally understand your wish of being healthy - that would be my wish too. I hope that self-care as well as medical and psychological support will help you change your situation.

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User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 4th, 2024

@audienta 

❤❤❤

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User Profile: underapinetree
underapinetree February 5th, 2024

My favorite is probably sunrise. I like seeing and knowing I have a whole day ahead. However, I also like midday for how the sun comes in my window during that time.


A main thing in my life I would want to change is being nicer to people. I think I want to be a friendly person, or at least be able to laugh with some close people. But to be friends and get close with others, I know I have to be kinder. To get closer to this change, a step I could take is writing down my thoughts more. I don't have many positive coping mechanisms, but writing has always been neutral with me. It hasn't done me wrong, and I especially enjoy having a group to post my thoughts and feelings too. I appreciate the sense of community, and I hope I can work on being kinder and a bit more vulnerable in online spaces, then transfer that to the real world.

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP February 8th, 2024

@underapinetree

Becoming kinder and more vulnerable can definitely be a challenge and I wish you all the best with it. I hope that being able to post your thoughts and feelings in the forums or in groups can help you with the process! 

User Profile: audienta
audienta OP February 8th, 2024

@underapinetree

Becoming kinder and more vulnerable can definitely be a challenge and I wish you all the best with it. I hope that being able to post your thoughts and feelings in the forums or in groups can help you with the process! 

User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 27th, 2024

@underapinetree

this is a great goal to have and i wish you all the luck on your journey 

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User Profile: communicativePond1728
communicativePond1728 February 10th, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favourite: sunrise or sunset? Why?

Lately sunset. February is such a gray and dull month but it's pink sunset somehow made me feel better.


2) What is the main thing in your life you'd like to change?

My focus. Pretty sure a goldfish has a longer attention span at this point, and certainly a more positive one.


3) What is one step you can take to get closer to this change?

Complete my small workout two more times this week at the gym. 

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 February 10th, 2024

@audienta sunrise 😍 on warmer days my favourite thing to do is sit outside in the morning and watch the sunrise ❤❤

what I'd like to change nothing I'm perfect 😁

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User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 27th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

dang right you are perfect lola <3

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 February 28th, 2024

@Bunnylovesyou ❤❤😁😁😁thanks sweetie

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User Profile: abbyjean90
abbyjean90 February 10th, 2024

@audienta

1) What is your favourite: sunrise or sunset? i love both but if i had to choose, it would be sunsets . I love our colorado sunsets they are breathtaking and beautiful 

2) What is the main thing in your life you'd like to change? My confidence, i am working on it but i have a long way to go . 

3) What is one step you can take to get closer to this change? Journaling, took a self confidence class, meditation, affirmations, doing things i love , saying no when im not comfortable


~*~*Abby*~*~

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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP February 10th, 2024

@abbyjean90

Hey Abby,

I'd choose sunsets as well!

It sounds like you already do a lot to improve your confidence. I hope you see some success soon!

User Profile: Bunnylovesyou
Bunnylovesyou February 27th, 2024

@abbyjean90

colorado sunsets are supposed to be amazing :0 I've seen pictures and just wowza!

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User Profile: PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
PiecesOfWhoeverIWas March 1st, 2024

@audienta

Sunset. I always get a weird feeling in my stomach when I have to go outside before the sun comes up.

I want to change how much I am afraid of people and the extent that it controls my life. I spend way too much time and thought figuring out how to avoid people who make me uncomfortable.

I’m not sure what first step to take. I’ve been reading a lot about fear of people. I try to envision myself as strong. But sometimes even a text popping up on my phone can start my anxiety. It became so easy for me to avoid, that my tolerance for emotional discomfort is so small. I think my next step is to continue guided meditations on this. My brain needs rewiring.
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User Profile: audienta
audienta OP March 4th, 2024

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

Hey there,

I love sunsets too. 

I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with a lot of anxiety regarding other people. I hope that the guided meditations give you some relief soon.

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