Am I still in honeymoon faze??
Hi, I used to be in an abusive relationship a couple of years ago and i still have a hard time with it because im pretty sure i never fully got out of the honeymoon faze even when i left. Idk just something in me at one point just said GET OUT OF THERE NOW and i didnt understand it but i did it which im glad i did but i still dont understand it. Its so confusing for me, how did it go so wrong? I dont really understand it its like i see 2 different people when i think about it. The abusive and the fairytale of a man that i saw. And so its very confusing to me how those 2 could exist at the same time?? Please let me know if any of you understand this or have advice or have gone through this yourself
Im not a mental health professional but you sound like a classic abuse case. The man was mostly mean, but 10% of the time he was sweet and thats what draws you in. Its a pattern.
Becuse lets face it. Healthy people NEVER hit other people.
@sympatheticKitten8138 ya i agree. I think my mind is so confused about how someone i wouldve sworn was so sweet and loving could be that but im starting to understand a bit more now and see the illusion that it was really
