Question
warmheartedPenny1949
April 2nd, 2022
I’ve woken up in the middle of the night a few times and my husband has been having sex with me. He always says I initiated it, but I was sleeping. I’ve been raped before, and this makes me feel the same way. Is this SA? How do I know if I am really initiating it in my sleep?
Optimisticempath
April 2nd, 2022
@warmheartedPenny1949
That sounds really confusing and messed up
If you're not consenting then it is very wrong of your partner
Do you think setting a camera or something can help?
rice1995
July 13th, 2022
It is SA! You aren't alert and can't make these decisions up when your sleeping hun.
helpfulNorth
July 19th, 2022
I'm so sorry! Your husband should consider that when you're sleeping (even if you iniate it, as he says) you're not conscious to consent. If there's no consent, it's SA indeed.