Need help....🚩
Hello everyone. I'm kinda new here... Sorry if I write the letter wrong becouse gonestly I'm holding tears. 3 months ago I had a boyfriend; we were at his place, makeing burgers but he wanted to cuddle... I was a bit iff that day becouse of period that was incoming but he started to tuch my tights a bit and even that I was pulling away his hand he continued... I didn't want to push him away becouse I really loved him but than he got *** and asked what is wrong with me and whx am I like that. I told him what situation I was and he stoped but two minutes later he grabed roughly the back of my neck and held me close than tried to have his wey with me... Adrenaline rushed through me and I kicked his colarbine but I still think it was type of secual abuse and from time to times I try to forget about it or anything but I randomly like get flashback if what happend and fear rushes through me... I still can't believe that someone that sais he loves me, do something like that... I really need help💔
@indigoCamp9920
so sorry he did that to you. your right it is sexual abuse also proud of you for not allowing him to go father in what he was planing to do. you very brave for reaching out for help too. any sexual action a person did not want is sexual abuse.
not sure were you live and what kind of help you can get there. you be a survivor. flashbacks are very hard to deal with i am also a survivor of sexual abuse. want you to know your not alone in this i am here for you so are many others on 7 cups.
i want you to know that you deserve better within a relationship. some say i love you but it only words to them to get what they want from the person. i lived that too.
hope you can find help here from peers like me.
@indigoCamp9920
Oh goodness, I am so sorry to hear that happened to you! Yeah that was not okay of him to do. I understand how that destroyed the net of safety for you. We are here for you in this community.
@indigoCano9920 I’m very sorry that happened to you and I hope you’re doing much better now. If you’re open to hearing my advice I think that you should talk to an adult or a close friend about this and definitely take a break from your boyfriend until he learns what he did was wrong. Sending you many blessings and hugs 🥰
I am sorry this happened to you ð¥¹
