Sexual assault
I need to know if I'm a bad person?
I was recently sexually assaulted by my father and I had a panic attack at a dance concert my friend brought her guy friend that she had a crush on who I didn't invite and she didn't tell me about it she's demanded it and it had been a month after my father sexually assaulted me and my friend knew about it and my dad hasn't gone to jail yet there's a trial and open investigation but I started having a panic attack around this guy that she liked I just don't feel comfortable around men anymore and my sister's boyfriend comes over to the house and I don't answer the door for him because I don't feel comfortable with men in my home who I don't really know other than my brothers am I a bad person if I tell my sister I don't want her boyfriend in the house
@friendlyShade2009
You are NOT a bad person to feel uneasy and uncomfortable around any and all men. i think your sister should be able to understand that. It is impossible for others to imagine being violated by someone close whom you should have been able to trust.
Are you in counseling or therapy as avoiding all men in the world would extremely limit your life . It will take a lot to work on that but in meantime asking and expecting safety and space is perfectly normal.
