A Raven's Eye

Working around the bugs

@lonelyandsickFede

And yeah....actually, bold is best for both subject line and nametag. And you're rigjt the "re: " isn't needed.

related thoughts to working out the bugs

@lonelyandsickFede

so.....some conversations may get started out of nowhere. Like this one did. So (and this is prob. duhhhh-obvious), but basically just start the subject line as soon as we can. ☺

Working out the bugs

& Rules of the Nest

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I am really loving the developments & solutions that have arisen out of some very frustrating problems (& even out of some possible social or self-care gaffes). Thanl you for your help and innovation @lonelyandsickFede ❣💜

I have decided to make them a part of the House (Nest) Rules for the remainder od the time that I have this Space.

For now that statement is enough. And I may not formalize it much beyond that for this space. If I come back though, these will be a part of thr house rules then as well. (These are more about "housekeeping" or "Pick up you Socks" rules. I imagine I will outline "conduct" rules or "Don't run in the house" rules as well. Though they may blend , as on the case of the diff poss "privacy" or "lookaway" guidelines (right now there are at least two: 1. the lookaway warning and "redaction" highlighting for a more private conversation w/in the Nest, and 2. a lookaway advisory and differently xolored highlightong/redaction dor an emotional expression that does not need support.

Related to #2. One could always make a later choice to share anything they now may feel comfoetable having out there or receiving comment on (w/out color redaction).

Rules of the Nest --Part.Deux

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There also are/will be "Asking Rules"

In general , partic when new to the Nest,

• Ask , Don't Tell -- This mostly about asking for clarification rather than assuming what is going on with the other; ask for clarification; asking if someone wants advice, questions vs comfort, or silence, or hugs. Not to get super regimented just to make things a bit more liveable.

***Note: foe the people that are already jere you don't hace to worry about this so much.

This is me, brainstorming and turning lemons into lemonade. If I had been savvy enough or brave enoigh to have some good Nest Rules perhaps the kerfuffle of nearly a week ago (a.k.a. The Great March Meltdown of 2018 😉😄😃), would not have happened, or would played out much less intensely.

Private or sensitive posts + Working around bugs

@SpruceRaven

I'm glad you liked my solutions

Maybe we should always use them, and let others who're having the same issue know that they could try this too.

Nest Rules

Hmmm. That one rule needs work in terms of naming: looks too much like 😞😞 "Don't Ask, Don't Tell". 😨😒 Maybe just simply "Ask" or "Ask & I Statements".

Working out the Bugs & House/ Nest Rules.

I agree Fede.

We could each post them to our feed, once we got them cleaned up a vit. Put both our nametsgs on it. I also think that while it is maybe common to have "house rules" for a peicate chatting space, we may want to also give a nod to s.one else (nameless for th e moment) as they putting together their own house rules right about the time of the/my Great Kerfuffle. (Yup, that's my personal name for it now). 🙄.

Could we hold off a bit though....till...Monday or Tuesday? Therr's some other "cleanup" I need to do. 🙄👍💥💜

working out the Bugs & private or sensitive communiques

Sooo. Maybe just thr aboce and NOT my other "nest" rules in terms of sharing them?

private or sensitive posts ◇ working out the Bugs

@lonelyandsickFede

sorry forgot to address it properly

working out the bugs ◇ private or sensitive posts

@lonelyandsickFede

your thoughts?