18 years 😞 TW SA
18 Years a Slave
It's hard to understand why stuff like this happen. My owners classed me as a sex slave. But torture was a big part of it. When I was rescued I was bearly 3 stone in weight, hurt badly. Then being brought into this world a different world, i didn't understand what was happening, I've had to get used to do much, I still have so much to learn.
Edited Sept 22, 2023
My heart absolutely breaks for you. I know I can't fix everything but I wish I could. I just felt so much pain and sadness reading this. And I just want you to know that, and if you ever need someone to talk to I'm am more than happy to be there for you! I hope you are doing alright!
@Happylabrador19 ❤❤ thank you ❤ I am doing alright🙂 I'm safe now and I have a great life, so much more than I could of ever wished for ❤❤❤ it's just hard sometimes
@Tinywhisper11
Lola, by far you are the strongest most Beautiful person ever. You are an amazing survivor of one of the worst possible scenarios. Your an amazing artist, kindest hearted and lovable person. Nothing you did was wrong or shameful. The shame is on the people who hurt you. You just keep being awesome. Your not alone beautiful girl. You have many supporters here on 7 cups. You have all the care home people supporting you. Every day is a gift . Your a gift, your artistic talent is a gift. Sharing your gift will make others happy. You survived for a reason and you inspire many.
When you need support reach out and you will find it.
You are loved
💜🤗
ABB
@amiableBlackberry92 hii abb ❤❤ how are you doing? And thankyou sweetie ❤ it just gets hard sometimes, I never know which way to turn. When it all becomes to much
@Tinywhisper11
I understand Lola. I'm hanging in. I'm dealing with some challenges right now. I keep on painting though. Art therapy right ?!?
Your a strong person and you will be ok it just takes time a dedication to your healing journey.
I am sending you good vibes today my friend 🤗💜🎨🥳♥️
ABB 💜
@Tinywhisper11 What happened to you!?😣 I remember you said once that you are in a wheelchair, if im not wrong, is it caused by this abuse?
@fearlessLake3608 yeah my owners broke my spine. After I was rescued I had a few operations and several metal plates but it's not completely fixable. So my legs became dead weights and they had to amputate them 😞 my owners also cut off half of my fingers. But dw I'm doing ok ❤❤ just get sad sometimes
@Tinywhisper11 that is awful to have to think of going through that. No one should have to go through that.
I have had a few losses in life that have stopped me cold but somehow I recovered from them by looking at what I have instead of what I lost.
I hope you can keep your positive outlook alive. You are an inspiration to us all. hugs
@soulsings I am trying very hard 🙂 and sorry for your losses 😥 I actually love my life now. I'm safe and have so much more than I ever could of imagined. It just gets hard sometimes
Hi @Tinywhisper11 ... I worked with child sexual exploitation support professionally... So have some experience in that area...Here if you want to talk to someone. Anyway just be aware, in case you have been subconsciously wondering, it's not your fault. [removed]... And you probably just had the bad luck to fall into the hands of someone like that..
I'm sure pretty much all of us who saw this are rooting for you. You're not alone... Loads of 🤗
edited Sept 21, 2023
@electricPeace6276 🙂❤ thankyou ❤ and yeah it was just bad luck. I was born into that cult. Children born into the cult were sold or kept for slaves 😞
@Tinywhisper11 I'm sorry to hear that... Or rather I should say I can't say how sad I am... Having worked in the NGO and having received training on this from some of the major police forces working on this from around the world I know exactly how horrible the experience is and how hopeless you must have felt at the time. Finding child abuse cults like this is one of the biggest aims of such police forces ... But unfortunately it's like finding a needle in a haystack.... And yet the battle continues with those of us civilians who try to pitch in and help in any way we can.
It's great that you managed to get out and were rescued. Sadly, yes the experience probably left you with so many mental and physical scars that it will take years to recover. But the fact you reached out here and bravely put your experience here says loads about your mental strength as a survivor. You are strong Tinywhisper. You don't need to let what others did to you defeat you. You are you. A strong positive person who can rise from the flames that attempt to destroy you, still clean and unstained. You are not what other people make of you. So continue to stay strong. You can adapt to a life free of all that pain very soon.
@electricPeace6276 🙂 ❤ I'm trying very hard ❤ thankyou
You are! And great work! Our support stays with you!
@Tinywhisper11
You are such a pleasure to talk to, so encouraging to see your resilience and humorous nature. You are a precious soul that is admired by so many of us. I have never met anyone who has gone through what you have and still has chosen to not allow this to change the beautiful person you are.
You said you have more than you have ever had and I believe that there is even more to come. A Treasure Chest of precious jewels coming your way.
@WorkingitThrough2 😍🤑🤑please send me the treasure. Yaaay! I'm gonna be rich ❤❤ merry Christmas to you too in return I'll send you 🤔🤔🤔this 🍙I think it's a judges wig 😁❤❤
@Tinywhisper11 I just saw this and hate to break this you but that's an onigiri... A Japanese rice triangle. Basically rice pressed into a triangle supported by a seaweed sheet (the black piece) with some filling in the center. Some of them can be really delicious 🤤
@electricPeace6276 you want to eat the judges wig 😲😲😲😂😂😂😂 I thought it would have somet to do with food😂😂
You are so strong Tiny ❤️❤️❤️
thank you for being brave and being a survivor.
You are an inspiration and an earth angel 👼🏻🌏
@spicyavocado3788 awww thankyou ❤❤
Well there's always a dark phase in everyone's life and with a dark phase comes light and trust me yours will shine brighter than anyone you've known so just smile and be happy ☺️
@awesomeMemory4346 I am happy now I really am. I have a great life now. And I try very hard every day🙂 just gets hard sometimes. Thankyou ❤
You can't truly enjoy life without hard times so whenever you are in a tough situation just remember what you have rather than what you don't then that problem will becomes smaller than you originally thought and it good to know that your happy and doing your best in life keep it up
@awesomeMemory4346 ❤❤ thankyou ❤❤
Ymw 😊
Thank god you knew what ymw meant 😩
@Tinywhisper11
I'm incredibly moved by your courage in sharing such a deeply painful and personal experience. What you went through is beyond comprehension, and no one should ever have to endure such cruelty. Your journey from captivity to freedom is a testament to your strength and resilience. It's a long and challenging road to healing and adapting to a new world, but your willingness to learn and grow is inspiring. Remember that there is a community of support and resources available to help you on this journey towards recovery. You are not alone, and your story is a testament to the indomitable human spirit. We're here to stand by you and support you as you continue to rebuild your life. 💪🌟 #Resilience #SurvivorStrength
@buildabetterworld 🙂 ❤ thankyou ❤ I've learnt a lot theese past few years. I think I'm doing really well ❤ just gets difficult sometimes. Thank you for your kind words ❤
@Tinywhisper11
How much is 3 stone?
@jesusredeemedme2425 42 pounds
@Tinywhisper11
Oh wow... I'm so sorry. Poor baby :(