should i not react if a traumatized person gave me trauma?
I suffered emotional neglect and family issues all my childhood. Now that I wanna question my parents on that, someone told me that they were traumatized by their parents so it's not their mistakes, that they are not accountable for my suffering and my parents consider all that was normal n happen in every household. Is it right?
@Sabrina25 Those things someone told you do not make sense. If your parents were traumatized, then they cannot possibly consider it normal. That's not what traumatized means.
It might be good to question your parents about the neglect you suffered, and also about how they were treated by their parents, but it might be frustrating for you if their guilt causes them to deny the truth.
Charlie
@Sabrina25 If no one becomes accountable because of how things were when brought up how do the cycles of these issues end?
There can be reasons why things occurred but it doesn't make them okay and I think having things acknowledged can be part of a healing process.
