Does it count and is it my fault?
My boyfriend (now ex) pressured me into going down on him and i'm not sure if it counts as sexual assault. He would get really upset when i said i wasn't ready and so i said yes. He doesn't think he did anything wrong and i don't know.
This website is a good resource for information about what a sexual assault is: https://rainn.org/get-information/types-of-sexual-assault/sexual-assault.
Yes. Forcing any sort of sexual act on someone without consent is not okay.
Here's a very British 3 minute video describing consent by comparing it to tea. I think people will find this enlightening and also amusing.
https://www.facebook.com/thisisinsider/videos/1486796681627725/?pnref=story
The takeaway is that if someone says no to do, please do not force them to drink tea. Same goes with any sexually related acts.