Acceptance
I guess I just have to accept that I will be alone forever. I'm 26 years old and I've never been with anyone, zero romantic experience. Although I am very good at learning new things systematically, like physics, math, chemistry, I was even able to apply a little logic to making friends and I was good at it to a certain extent, although in the end it feels like acting... But I know that comparison is the happiness killer, and seeing the rest of the world deal with this so naturally and easily.... it discourages me. And I know that the opposite is also the case, things that are difficult for the rest, like losing weight or getting in shape seem to me something extremely easy to do... I would give that to feel a little bit of comfort when it comes to socializing, to be able to show interest. At this point I'm too exhausted and not wanting anything, and I'm honest, I never felt a shred of hope, those who have supported me in this believe I have because I lied to them, I lied to me. I feel that the only thing I have left to accept is, I am weird, insecure in this aspect, and I am horrible at it even though I have been trying to improve for years, even chatting with a friend makes me anxious. I have to accept that I will be alone.
Don’t give up, there’s someone out there for everyone. You just haven’t met your match yet.
@beautifulTurtle9552 The only thing I'm achieving by not giving up is to end up getting even more insolated and losing the will to live. This is eating me up.
@Franse Sorry if all you get from me in the end is negativity. Thanks for trying to cheer up this poor sap!
I am also feeling the same by the way. Atleast for sharing your thoughts.
If even feel to share - plz mail me on my fake email id - h7jatfq41@mozmail.com
Plz be respectful and thank you
@Franse
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt concerns. I'm here to listen.
It takes immense courage to acknowledge your struggles with socializing and relationships.
Your achievements in physics, math, and chemistry showcase your exceptional learning abilities.
Comparison can indeed be detrimental. Focus on your strengths and unique qualities.
Your feelings of exhaustion and anxiety are valid.
Remember:
1. You're not alone in feeling this way.
2. Your worth extends beyond social relationships.
3. Self-acceptance is a powerful step.
Would you like to explore:
1. Strategies for managing social anxiety?
2. Building self-compassion?
3. Embracing your individuality?"
Additional Guidance:_
1. Avoid minimizing or dismissing feelings.
2. Encourage self-reflection.
3. Foster a sense of connection.
@Franse
@Franse Really sorry that it's so hard for you. I hope you find the peace and support that you are looking for here. May your new connection bloom naturally and effortlessly. Don't be so hard on yourself.
@Franse
its ok to feel that way. its perfectly fine to live alone. many people out there living that way. it sucks i understand but thats where u find the most peace at. i am one of u and im at peace with myself living this way. hope u make out of it or accept it.