Am i the only one?
I never can find the words in the moment to explain myself to people on here what im going through. and as each second goes by that i dont answer back i feel more and more like i just have to get up and leave.
@guywiththehair You're not alone, Sometimes we just need time to process and calm ourselves down before expressing ourselves... I feel the same 🙁
When this happens, you can maybe let the person know by saying "wait, okay?" or "I need some time to process." I do it too, and it's normal when we're going through some heavy emotions and are not sure how to put it into words... Just try to be real and honest, even silence has meaning sometimes. 🤍
try not to be too hard on yourself ❤️ It's okay not to perfectly put your feelings and what you're going through into the right words... the right ones will understand and wait for you patiently.
I wish you find the support you're looking for 🍀 Sending lots of love to you! 🐾❤️
@guywiththehair
I feel that way, too. Sometimes I have false starts, and delete it all, and start over lol
I just created a "brain dump challenge" post. Why not share there? You can write as little or as much as you want, in any way you want <3
https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/General_2440/BrainDumpChallenge_356769/
You're not the only one. My brain is so full or emotions and thoughts, but I can only express the smallest part of it. For me, it's so easy to think what I'm gonna say long in advance, prepare it all until the day I'm gonna tell someone what I'm going through. But in front of them, I feel lost, and my words come out messy.
@guywiththehair I feel the exact same way, when I'm by myself and preparing for a serious talk or even an interview, I always know what I'm gonna say, I have the confidence and everything, but as soon as I come face to face my brain fogs up and I forget everything I said in my head or out loud and I'm having to collect my thoughts all over again just to make a simple sentence.