Hey everyone :)
Hey Guys,
My names Fleur, I'm 34 and new here. I'm super excited to have found 7 cups, it looks like it'll really help :)
I'm hopefully looking to find some lovely people to connect with, fingers crossed! Having quite a tough time at the moment. My 10 year relationship ended at the beginning of the year and struggling with such a huge life change.
I'm quite a homey person, love staying in and chilling. Like a bit of gaming here and there as well. Although I do like keeping busy, going out for walks etc at the same time. I've just started trying to focus on myself a bit more, started going to the gym, taking multivitamins etc 😄 Anything to try and feel a bit better!
So if anyone's up for a chat, or if anyone's not feeling great either please feel free to send a message!
@SummerStrawberry1211
hi, Fleur!! welcome to 7 Cups! I am part of the support team, and if you ever have questions about the platform, feel free to PM me anytime <3 have fun here!
@SummerStrawberry1211 hi I'm Lola 💖 welcome to our cups family 💗 I'm so sorry about your breakup🙁 but I'm glad you found cups you don't have to struggle alone anymore, we are here for you 💗 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
@Tinywhisper11
Ah thank you so much! That's such a warm welcome! :)
Wow, your situation is similar to mine. I have been married for 11 years and I am contemplating getting a divorce. I feel like my life has gone nowhere and that everything is out of my control. I am currently seeing a therapist. I also became best friends with a coworker from the past who is the opposite sex. We talked a lot for a year and were really there for each other. I didn’t really talk about my relationship problems or anything like that. Well last month, we were going to hang out and I just decided to tell him everything. He was nice and said he knew I was married and just didn’t want to ask me about it so he wasn’t too intrusive. But then the next day, he started ignoring me and getting more and more distant. I’ve tried to ask him what is wrong multiple times and he makes excuses. Now he won’t even open my messages for days at a time. So I feel like I’ve also lost my best friend too. I just have a lot of hurt going on. I think maybe we can relate to each other.
Hey summerstrawberry! I also like to play some video games. What do you like best? Welcome to 7CUPS!! There’s lots of great people here!!
@SummerStrawberry1211 welcome! I'm quite new here too, and so far have found it to be a great and active community.
I admire that you're being quite proactive about your situation. I feel like you're addressing your struggles early rather than letting them progress. That's already massive progress! There are many people here for you, and I would be proud to be one of them.
Relationships scare me honestly. You can reach such great heights, yet you can fall so far as a result. I think it's good to see it as a learning experience and opportunity for growth. Please let your light shine for others to see, you are an asset to this world.
I too found solace in gaming, though I do much less now, if at all. Unfortunately it stopped bringing as much joy and I found myself feeling frustrated. If it sparks happiness for you, that's fantastic :) Gaming made the darkness I endured much less frightening.
Stay strong, you're on top of this I feel. Keep reaching out and telling your story, there is so much strength to be gained from that.
@SummerStrawberry1211
Hi Fleur, welcome to 7cups! You have found the right place. You will meet the nicest, kindest, and most empathetic people on here. 7cups has been a big part of my healing process and I hope you will find it to be the same- and more- for yourself!!
Hello I've been through this and I just wanted to chat
Hey there I'm Namitha and I'm being bullied silenced and ignored theres no one to really understand me My problem is I've been forced to adjust to my family which is orthodox and kinda haunting and I'm just 15 so if anyone wants to help please chat it will be of great help No one likes me for the way I am
I'm an introvert and i dont talk much to people so my family forces me to keep talking and smiling even if I don't want to they tell girls don't cry and all that at one point this started interfering with my studies And I'm glad I've found 7 cups as soon as possible
@crimsonLemon813
hey, sounds like you have a lot going on. I’m up to listening since I have my own problems and maybe listening to others may help me in my own 🤷
@SummerStrawberry1211 hey nice to meet you and welcome, you have come to the perfect place. Ten years is along time and I can only imagine comes with alot of conflicting emotions. It will take time for you to feel like you again but wishing you the best moving forward 💜🥰
@SummerStrawberry1211 hello & welcome to 7 cups I hope you find your experience here to be memorable , pleasurable and supportive , I'm also sorry to hear of the ending of your relationship sending healing energy & love your way 💙
Hi, I’m Kiara! I’d love to talk to you <3
