Hi people!
Tell me - how are you? Not just I'm good or I'm fine, but actually how are you?
@Bones09
Aw, this is such a nice post. Thank you for making space for our members to share candidly <3
How's being a listener for you so far?
It's amazing honestly
@Bones09
I'm at peace tonight.
Chaotic day.
Exhausted now but fulfilled and content I did my best 💙🤗
I'm happy to hear!
@Bones09
welcome to cups. Here is 2 guides. That can you out as new listener. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1J0P_a463RsOkBFmgE4hqMUPCyqD98MCZO_r8PAb4ERs/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.6zoipvarg5nu And. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1M53Nm5-pbtxx2_jKfXYgYzo3NgXxjNfMwfzVSRC1rZg/edit?tab=t.0. Peer support is after you have hard chat and chat support is help doing a chat. Here form to request one if there not any in listener support room.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2yFIiL6az6UEOc5LNqOOERpM7D0g8F49x0qjbIq7QwhJOBQ/viewform
Here is listener to the listener support where you can get if needed
https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=2_2b554a18cf379d85bN8W7-fzi03rI51eauafmg
I’m terrified. I’m getting into a new relationship and it’s a scary thing. As someone who likes structure and wants to know what will happen, the uncertainty is freightening me. I’m being patient and resilient but this feeling is hard to ignore. Though, this is probably the healthiest relationship I’m getting into but I’m discovering that there is sooo much more to relationships than what I already know. It’s not easy but I’m not giving up.
@cephalonowl2222
You can do it! And dont beat yourself up if you make a mistake!
Thank you so much! Not beating myself up is also something I’m working on 😭 but I’m trying my hardest.
Im really glad to hear that you are trying your best. Just know even if things go wrong your gonna be okay no matter what.
Yeah I can relate, not knowing if things will turn for the worse but thats the beauty if it because youll end up more surprised if things will go well. You got this best of luck to both of you guys<3 I hope things lasts long
I’m angry. I’m always angry. Angry at everyone and everything
Have you ever pondered over it when you are alone🤔like why you got angry over a specific thing?what was in that moment that made you angry?could it be ignored and resolved calmly💁♂️
Try it.It helps😘
@Bones09
Honestly Im feeling pretty anxious right now because of my current realtionship situation. Im trying to understand that even if things don't work out im gonnna be okay and that there are a lot more fish in the sea then this person. Im trying to be less obsessed with them and recognize their flaws and accept them for who they truly are. Its really hard but I know that I can do it. Im really worried that they might betray me all the time and thats not good or that they are gonna leave me. To whoever might read this thank you!
Your Welcome🤗 and love the part where you said "recognize their flaws and accept them" thats a sign of maturity.Have to work alitle on the trust part but other than that you are awesome👻
Thank you for asking..😊
I'm well ,but not much. But I am so thank to god for giving one more day , I see that as grateful..🤗❤️..
And what About you...?
I’m doing great today, nursing my leg after a Charlie horse left with me leg discomfort. I went and got a jelly spa bath for my leg which was awesome and entailed Aromas of lavender, Orange peels, heating towels, heat, and steam hot stone massage, sugar scrub. It was just an hour of relaxing, improving the circulation in my leg. They offered
bubble tea, chips and water a neck and shoulder massage. It was just an awesome day to spend an evening after being in leg pain all day.
Spa day rocks👻💆♂️
Hating my life right now.
So tired of dealing with all the stuff im dealing with.
How are you?
You asked them how they were doing.which means you are kind and awsome as you think about people even when you are exhausted👻