How to Chat with People
Hi I'm a newbie can you guys tell me how I can chat with anyone on here??
@mawihealss77
Hello welcome here ☺️ in 7cups family.I hope you doing well 🙏🌷
@Tulipsmile
If you want to chat you can go to group room chats and meet a lot of friends,or if you want to talk to listener you can make request and choose the topics you want to talk with and wait until listener accept your request,or you can use listeners browsr to find listeners and chat
Thankyou you are so kind🤍
@mawihealss77
Awww my pleasure 😊💕, thank you for your kind words
Can't text in groups
@sensitiveGrapefruit5621
Hello, sorry to hear that.....you can report your issue here :
https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new/
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Can't text in groups
@mawihealss77
https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
@mawihealss77 Welcome! ✨🤍 I wish you have a great time here 🍀 Sending lots of love towards you! ❤️❤️
Aww thankyouu i feel so seenð¥°
I'm new too. HI X
@AwkwardPixie40
Welcome here 😊 
@AwkwardPixie40
Welcome 💜🥰
Thank you. How is everyone?
@AwkwardPixie40
You are welcome
Hmm me trying to survive lol , thanks for asking, what about you 🌷
I'm OK. Trying 2 make myself tired. I suffer with imsomnia
@AwkwardPixie40
I am sorry to hear that, I can understand that ,tbh I live with insomnia,so I can relate, for me I try to walk before sleeping even if it for like 15 minutes, and you need to avoid using mobile or anything related before bed time ACTUALLY, reading book also may help
What you are trying to helps!if I can ask!
i relate to you so much i always struggle with insomnia too..I made a mistake of taking pills which helps anxiety plus sleep but i kind of became dependant on it and on nights when I don't take it, I can't sleep..but what was i supposed to do?stay up till 3 wide awake? And you know the hardest part about insomnia is when you are sleepy but can't fall asleep like that's so frustrating and torturous
I will be colouring with music on soon for my shut down routine. I tried reading I cant concentrate I get fidgety.
@AwkwardPixie40
Colouring is good idea , but music 🎵!! I haven't try that before, does it help 🤔for me I don't prefer music before sleeping its cause me headache and Crouching😅tbh ...
Oh reading ,I can understand that
I'm sure those will be an aid..for me tho listening to music will make me more tense instead of relaxing..it's wonderful right like how humans are so similar but function so differently I think this example itself also made me realise every pain is valid and how struggles might have the same term it's not the same and at the end of the day what we can do is just be kind and not add to the pain🤍
@mawihealss77
💙😇🌷🌷
I sleep to music. It keeps my focus off worrying.
@AwkwardPixie40
That's good to hear, I hope you have nice sleep 😴
@mawihealss77
Welcome 💜🥰
Good to have you here!
@mawihealss77 welcome! There are multiple ways to talk to people:
- 1 on 1 chats are only possible with a listener, who you can select or get a random one
- 1 on 1 chats with members are done through penpal threads in the forum, where you make a thread to talk with a specific person or a closed group of a few people
- there are also guided and free group chats to hang out at
- talking on the forum threads repeatedly can get you a lot of friends to get you started 😊
Enjoy your stay here!
Thankyou for telling me that!! i would really love to make new friends💌
@muffinheals I recommend you go around the threads in ice-breakers and games and engage a bit with others there, you will notice quite a reoccurring crowd who you can grow closer with
Hii thankyou again!🤍I chatted with 2 listeners but they took so much time to reply and then when I entered the groups there's this support group and many people were talking..yk I just wanted one on one chats with anyone at this point so ofc of he or she is a listener just someone who has the same problem as mine..
@muffinheals also, it's a good idea to set up a profile picture (doesn't really matter what you put there, you just want to help people remember they interacted with you before, until they remember the username), since a profile picture will help you get remembered at the start through an easy visual clue. Especially since a lot of us tends to tag their friends in some of our threads, and most of us built the relationships through repeatedly seeing each other around forums and vibing together. So pick something you like, can be anything from a simple pattern to pets, landscapes and characters and have fun friend hunting 😊
Hi sorry to disturb you with my silly questions but i actually tried setting it up but it doesn't work..do I need an email verification for that?maybe it's due to that
@muffinheals nope, took me a bit to figure it out too, but when you set it up, you have to scroll down to the bottom of the setting page you have it on, and there is something like save changes or that type of things, click that
@muffinheals try to set it up and if it won't work, let me know and will try to give you a visual guide
Hey so I tap on to my profile right the circle where my name is written and it said "not allowed to set profile picture up" just that and there's no other option to click or anything
@muffinheals are you on pc or mobile?
I'm on mobile..maybe it's because I just joined today?? because I'm a newbie or idk I'll try some ways again Kay
@muffinheals could be.
Some other possible reasons it won't work:
- image file is bigger then the whatever that limit written next to the pfp settings is ( think it's 5mb)
- image file is not PNG or jog
- it has something cups doesn't allow on it (things also listed next to the pfp thing)
Dang urs is really different from mine like I'm lost for eg even now u could upload the image right for me too see but mine doesn't have that feature
@muffinheals did you go like this
1. Click the corner with your PFP
2. Click settings
3. Click choose file and choosing the picture
4. Scroll down when it pops up there
5. Click this
@muffinheals *jpg
@muffinheals also I checked Google and it says cups needs email verification, so do it if you haven't yet. But it didn't find a time limit to wait before it allows a pfp