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User Profile: TheGivenUp
TheGivenUp August 25th

I m tired n exhausted of this world which forces women to be housewives I had a career now after marriage i m being forced to be housewife n I feel trapped n depressed . None understands my pain. Its ok I will just go i dont wanna live here where people dont think women also have dreams

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 25th

@TheGivenUp

You matter too.

I'm sorry that you live in a place they tells you otherwise.

Your career and dreams should be validated and respected and not determined by a man or society 💛

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User Profile: bluePeach9447
bluePeach9447 August 25th

I'm sorry for what you are going through. I know it's something very hard and unbearable. And that society and family have a big and direct influence in some communities, but that doesn't mean you should give up. Never. Just keep resisting and be a little patient and you will see that everything will change for the better. I know that words don't help in some situations and they don't heal the pain. But I'm going through something similar, it's like I'm giving advice to you and to myself! One day, at least one of our dreams will come true.💚

@TheGivenUp 

I’m a woman too, and I honestly think the solution isn’t for you to give up on yourself. If being a housewife isn’t the life you want, you have every right to communicate that clearly with your husband and family. Try to work out a compromise return to your career, work remotely, study, or find something that gives you financial and personal independence. And if they refuse to respect your choices, please seek support from someone you trust and consider what options you have to build a life where your voice matters. You still have choices, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

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User Profile: iulika5977
iulika5977 August 27th

@enchantingPeace6351

When you said that the solution is not to give up on yourself i thought its better to give up on them.

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User Profile: ArtisticAngel999
ArtisticAngel999 August 25th

@TheGivenUp

Hi, 
I'm so sorry for what you are going through, it must be really difficult and hard to know that society and family have a big and direct influence in some communities. I'm also sorry that you live in a place that tells you otherwise. It's super important to keep your dreams alive and it happens in a place where you are validated and respected. 

Thank you for sharing, and opening up about this. I send you all the warmth and healing you need ❤️☺️

User Profile: SadLifeOfme
SadLifeOfme August 26th

@TheGivenUp that's sad, I can relate) ;

User Profile: TygerTyger
TygerTyger August 26th

that's like putting shackles isn't it , it must be frustrating , people can say that they understand u but none can , u need to resist bit by bit and do what u love to do

User Profile: JaiMaaDurga1
JaiMaaDurga1 August 26th

@TheGivenUp I m so sorry you have to go through all this 

User Profile: cheerfulKiwi1776
cheerfulKiwi1776 August 27th

@TheGivenUp

I understand how hard this is for you. I have a misogynistic father and I understand 

Please reach out to a hot line or text line about women support. You might find them pretty helpful🤍

User Profile: cyanSkies9687
cyanSkies9687 August 27th

I'm also not in a state of commenting but I hope that everything will be all right