I want to better myself. (Idk if this is allowed on here, lol.)
Idk if this will trigger anyone but if it does this is about narcissism.
I am really struggling with my narcissism lately. I really do care about other people's feelings I just have to actively think about caring about someone outside of myself for the benefit of them. Like I'll do something for someone else but it always benefits me. How should I go about bettering myself?
@fairmindedNickel2591
Regarding your question:
- I am really struggling with my narcissism lately.
I really do care about other people's feelings
I just have to actively think about caring
about someone outside of myself for the benefit of them.
Like I'll do something for someone
else but it always benefits me.
How should I go about bettering myself?
People always usually benefit from doing something for others.
It's called The Helper Effect.
So maybe use that to help you to realize that:
- When you're helping others
you're actually helping yourself too!
- It makes you feel good
and you improve yourself too.
Helping others can help you
more than it helps them.
That's what studies have found.
