My first interaction on here and I think I have already been blocked?
I just had the app find a random listener to start talking to and I told them I was new and unsure of how to start the conversation. They asked why I was here and I told them about how I have been depressed and some of the things I think have contributed to my current mental state... they said “I’m sorry”. I then told them my age, gender, and relationship status just so they would have a reference as to how to respond, and after that I could no longer access the messages. I left the tab and reopened it and now the messages aren’t even in my inbox…
Its not that it’s that big of a deal if they felt like my problems were too much for them to handle… just tell me you think I should talk to someone else. I’m already struggling and it doesn’t feel great to get cut off like that as soon as I share my problems? 🫤
Maybe I’m overthinking it and the app is just glitchy? It is my first day, so idk if maybe this kind of thing happens all the time?
Thank you for reading. ❤️
I am sorry things like this has been happening I as a person understand the way u all must have felt although I have only once or twice blocked a member for there inappropriate texts which they didn't stop even after warning but still ill keep this in mind and be more careful next time onwards 🤍
Hi there
I can appreciate you feel disheartened about this :( If you are blocked it will say you cannot message them. I’m so sorry to hear you’ve had a bad experience. Perfectly ok to be shy and unsure - here is a welcome pack . I’d be happy to chat with you in pms if you want that https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CL9Yu_6zixlapOjdrhCgKLy9JN5wY3HWdrGH7PIO2WI/edit
@pinkLime8616 not even gonna lie, the listeners never ACTUALLY listen to you, or at least, they didn't listen to me. I picked out my listener, and then they came on a half an hour later. They asked me what my name was, how old i was, i told them my problem, and they said, "im sorry" and then nothing. I was just sitting on my chromebook, draining the battery, while they didn't even give me advice.
I'd rather spend my time venting in a group. :(
If you want you can share your problems with me .
@pinkLime8616 I'm so sorry you've had a terrible experience. Well I want you to know that you did nothing wrong and you're feelings are valid and I'm more than happy to chat with you if you would like to speak to an active listener.
