Why can't I find no one here?
lmao so I try find a listener but it's so hard. I can't find anyone who would wanna listen to me and help because they thought I was girl before because I didn't have a pfp because before I couldn't but now I could and now they saw my pfp and get surprised and was like "bro your dude!" then stop talking to me. Does it honestly matter?
Hi there @BrokenShatteredDreams welcome to the community!
Some people do feel more comfortable or equipped talking with or supporting certain subsets of the community, be it gender-wise, language-preferences etc, but ghosting you after accepting your chat and treating you differently only because you weren't what they "assumed" you were based on your profile picture etc, is totally unfair and yes, you did not deserve this mis-treatment.
Listeners can and do have their boundaries, comfort, preferences etc also, but the least they should do and are encouraged to do is to be communicative-enough and not leave chats without notice/ ghost for no relevant reasons.
I hope you shared your honest feedback on these chats, if not, please do- https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=36000204597 feedbacks are passed onto the listeners and they receive relevant training and support from the mentors to improve their listening skills, do better at following the guidelines and being professional about it.
Very unfortunate you had to experience this trouble finding a listener, it can be truly frustrating trying to find someone genuinely interested in supporting you specially when you're struggling already, but rest assured, there's plenty amazing listeners here who would be willing to offer you a safe and welcoming space to share more about your thoughts and feelings, and I do hope you can connect with one soon.
Have you tried filtering your search for "verified listeners"? You can do so here- https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=0&find=&sort=&category=&ageGroup=&listType=&gender=&religion=&country=&language=&verifiedlistener=on 😊
@BrokenShatteredDreams im a listener, u can talk to me if u wanna
@BrokenShatteredDreams no it doesn't. Were all just human trying to cope with all that comes with that. I'm sorry you got that kind of response. Don't give up....there are plenty of people that can give you the support you need.
Hey, I can't say much about the reason behind the way some listeners interacted with you. but heyyy, I'll like you to know that as a listener myself, I'm comfortable speaking to you, you as a human being is what I'm looking to interact with, gender almost has no significance here unless we are dealing with some special problems pertaining to that. Soo, feel free to drop a text if you would like to connect anytime 💗 thank you for dropping the message and speaking your mind. I hope to not disappoint you 💫
Feel free to message me 🩵 I will always be more than happy to help you. I’m so sorry that you had to go through all of that - no one deserves to be turned away like that.
@BrokenShatteredDreams in find male friends so much nicer and less stressful, id love to be ur friend but im not a listener yet😕 talk to me if you need☺️
