Will I ever get a Girlfriend

@UnknownHyuman

Hey there. Everyone is on a different timeline. I can understand wanting to be in a relationship. But, I remember hearing once “we will get to where we want to be when we're meant to get there.” I’m sorry you’ve faced rejection before. It does hurt and I can see how it would affect your self-esteem. Practicing self-compassion can go a long way though. 💜

It’s important to live yourself first so you avoid using peoples romanric attention as a measure of your self worth?

@UnknownHyuman

It's a cliche, but a true one - real beauty is within you and not dependent on your outer features. Stand up straight and know you are worthy of respect and love and soon you'll attract what you are looking for.

@UnknownHyuman this caught my eye that someone is thinking the same thing as me (I am a girl though) You are not alone on your own path, that I believe the right thing will come at the right time!

The first very important lesson, is to love yourself. To appreciate and accept yourself for who you are. The second most important lesson is to realise that beauty cannot be defined or measured - everyone has a different idea of who or what is beautiful. So don’t beat yourself up for it, if the person is the one for you they will love you for who you are, just the way you are. You are enough.

@UnknownHyuman Every single start can be very challenging. It's so understandable to be scared at first. It is pretty obvious that you are lacking confidence my dear. Personally I do not believe you are any of these things. There are people out there who don't seem to have anything but they convince everyone about their value, just because they are confident. Stop trying too hard on getting a girlfriend because it can become obvious and this tends to push people away. Focus on your self improvement instead so that you can get more confident. Then everything will fall into place eventually! We are all here for you if you need any support!