i want friends
i’ve been on the internet for as long as i could remember and my friendships always ended up failing, either because they lost interest in me or they just disappeared randomly.
i genuinely want to have people that i can talk about my interests with.. and listen to them talk about their days to me, even if i can’t make friends here i want advice on how to find better people without feeling like i have to constantly please them to maintain the friendship
@ssourbugs
i'm glad your here. There are many who come here to meet people. Your in luck.
It is difficult keeping friends, trying to give more to the friendship is good for longevity.. but of course ultimately it will be a life long challenge to keep friends and i wish you the best.🌱
@ssourbugs
You come across as you would be a good friend. In my experience, often times, friendships are on a limited life span. It is exciting at first getting to know each other. But with time, they may fade. The good thing is, there are always new friendships around the corner waiting to be made.

@ssourbugs i would love to become friends with you, just let me know on my end what i could do to help. :)
@ssourbugs welcome, and i can be your friend, letting you know i faced the same for a while and you aren't alone , don't hesitate to reach out.
Hello my Friend
Friends come and go. You will meet others here and in your life that you will connect with.
I also.long for human connection. I know it's difficult to find true friends but please don't give up looking.
We all deserve to have friend. Reach out to me if you ever want someone to talk to.
@ssourbugs
Welcome to cups 🤗 🩷

Hey, I recommend joining any societies or clubs near you. Although I can't be a long term friend for you, feel free to message me if you ever want to have a friendly conversation or just talk about life - hope you're doing alright
Everyone's solution to make friends shifts here and there.
But the main thing that worked for me was going out somewhere on my own and doing something I find interesting whether it was going to an organised event or just going out.
That's the main first step to making acquaintences. If you see someone regularly or want to talk to someone, feel free to say hello. And if you ever have a conversation make sure to actively listen. If the other person isnt up to chat then you can simply stop, apologise and move on.
However most people I have spoken to this way to usually are happy to talk. As long as you act polite and show respect then it is much easier. And eventually you hang out enough and it turns into friendship.
The main thing I think you should ask yourself is what does a friend mean to you? If it is simply wanting to talk about mutual interests there are many hobby places or online forums to meet people with those interests. If its someone you want to physically hangout with there are events you could join. Make sure you know what you are searching for.
Friendship can mean many things. I hope you find the type of friends you are looking for.
Take care of yourself.
Hey I know how you feel when I started spiralling everyone turned there back on me and judge me and i was always there for them when they need help or I saw them spiralling. Sometimes it just proves they where never really you friends and your better of with out them. Im struggling with addiction and depression on my own its hard as *** I have no one to talk tk about it or help so I know how you feel. Im here if you ever need a chat to vent or anything.