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@limegreenKiwi7397

Hmm. I think it depends on the context. For instance, I feel having innocent crushes is normal. Like when I was younger, I had crushes on older boyband members. But, when it comes to actually real-life dating it’s definitely different. 💜

@limegreenKiwi7397

I think it is normal ...... some girls mature emotionally faster and they perhaps depending on the boy may be equal in maturity levels........ many young girls have crushes on older boys and some may feel an older boy would somehow rescue them or take them away ........

In actual situation besides the many legal issues i think many regret later on if convinced or taken advantage of.

I think it's just one those crushes that we go through when we're young. There might be other factors why you thought you are attractive to that guy, like certain traits that attracts you to him or maybe a person you're missing out on life like a brother or father figure?

@limegreenKiwi7397

Hi, for me I think it's normal. Cause some people find older men more attractive than guys their own age.

When I was your age, I had a crush on a handsome young, twenty something teacher of mine. But he has a girlfriend though. But I still like him despite of it, wished I was older already that time. Hahaha.

I find him more mature and easy to talk to than guys my age whom I can't get a serious conversation. :)

@limegreenKiwi7397 Having a crush on older guys is totally normal dear. A guy that's at this age is very close to their teenage years and the age difference is pretty standard. The reason why law prohibits relationships considering this age gap is because an adult has different experiences and a different mind so it's easy for them to manipulate a teen. It is done for your safety. It's not weird liking older guys especially at the range you mentioned. But try to stick to people near your age for now and everything is going to fall into place eventually!

@limegreenKiwi7397

sure but be careful you might be falling for the wrong guy okay and prob don't date them

@limegreenKiwi7397 Hi it's the same for us men, when I was younger, all of us lads would be gushing over the women teachers all day long, it's completely normal. I think it's every boys dream to get with their teacher. But as a teenager you have no idea how emotionally damaging it is to have those feelings and act on them. Now it never happened but it did happen with people the same age and that was bad enough. You don't want to rush or give that up for anyone if you know what I'm talking about. You will regret it and it will damage you more than you may ever understand. Wait til you find the right person and if I could influence the future generations, we were sold a lie, to lose our virginity or you're a joke, to have many partners or you're not desirable or cool. Everything the world pressures you into is bad for your health. That's what I wish I had been able to grasp and be confident enough to be proud of being that virtuous and powerful person