If you met yourself as a stranger, what would you notice first?
Would it be the way you carry yourself, the way you speak or the energy you give off? And what part of you would you hope to stand out?
@BlueDarkAurora Like @Szellem has said, I also tend to notice a person's energy or aura or vibes or whatever you call it. By that I do not mean an X ray vision or anything but how they carry themselves, their posture, their smile or lack of smile, their confidence , the way they talk , their body movement ... so yeah, a little bit of FBI profiling.
I hope that I stand out as a kind person. One who is also firm. ( I always say I am a kind person and not a nice person. I can be nice and be "not' nice when needed) So yeah, I hope that I give off that vibe.
How about you Aurora? What do you notice first?
@azurePond you're like S-her-lock Holmes lol so clever with all the details. You do stand out as a kind person, positively adorable too n_n You're also deeply caring 💚 Your poems are so full of emotions, you express them beautifully.
It's also cool that you know when not to be nice. Protecting our kindness matters.
As for me, I'm in my own world most of the time. I don't always notice people but when I do, it's the eye contact that stands out. Some people follow your eyes like they are trying to read you. I just hope I come off as shy and not arrogant.
@BlueDarkAurora Aww, thank you ..... that’s such a sweet thing to say! You’ve made me smile way too wide with the “S-her-lock Holmes” bit... haha. I’m really touched by your kind words. it means a lot coming from someone as thoughtful as you
And yes I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) that kindness needs boundaries too. It’s not always easy but it’s a kind of self respect I’m still learning to honour.
I really like what you said about eye contact — that quiet, invisible dialogue it creates. I don’t think you come off as arrogant at all. Shy, maybe. Thoughtful, definitely. There’s something gentle in the way you observe the world and it shows💚
@azurePond
Maybe my smile… or my weird clothes XD
@jesusredeemedme2425 I think I would notice your smile first and then I would think " This woman has a cool style. She has a personality!"
Lol, I have autism and wear baggy and unstylish clothes XD
@jesusredeemedme2425 I have this friend—if she’s in the mood, she’ll step out in a neon lime tulle dress or a haute couture hat like she’s on a runway. And honestly? I’m never embarrassed. She owns it. The woman could style a plastic bag and still look like fashion royalty.
So trust me when I say: baggy clothes? They’re not even close to being problems. What you wear, how you are—that’s your style, your story. And that’s powerful. Wear your baggy clothes proudly. Wear it confidently that no one dares to second guess about your clothing choices.
Awww thank you <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 I think I would notice your smile first too. And I'm sure you can make anything look amazing 💚
Awww thank you <3
@BlueDarkAurora uhmmm their dressing , body language... How they walk around
@goodKiwi9843 That's nice ^-^ people can tell so much without even saying a word.
@BlueDarkAurora
Probably the fact that I have long hair in a place where almost everyone has the same haircut, and my kinda unusual clothing. Besides the fact that I'd be listening to Sonic music or smth.
@AxlMega I love long hair :O
Cool music taste ^-^ Unusual clothing can be so much fun! You're positively unique.
Maybe too unique for my own good sometimes.
@AxlMega how so? <3
For example, I can't wear jeans. For some reason, they feel really annoying to me XD
@AxlMega oh they can be annoying xD especially in summer
@BlueDarkAurora How tired I look, or my hair. My hair sucks lol
@BlueJay06 we all have those bad hair days @_@ Sometimes it feels like bad hair season lol
But I'm sure your hair has its own charm, just like you do :) I hope you get to have some good rest.
@BlueDarkAurora Thank you! Well I have trichotellomania so my bad hair days are all my life. If you don’t know, trichotellomania causes you to pull out your hair. So it is very noticeable for me, which is why I put my hair lol
@BlueJay06 Thank you for telling me about Trichotillomania :) I may not know what it feels like but I can sense the quiet strength you carry in your heart 💙 Your hair or how it looks, doesn't define you. You are still your beautiful self.
I stand and walk strange for various reasons, and the look of pain and worry. If I am stressed my body twists. Hard to explain . I know it is the first thing people see because they ask strange are you ok questions which actually makes it worse.
I really wouldn't want to stand out and would prefer to be relatively invisible. If anything Id like my positive can do attitude to stand out.
@reservedOwl321 Your positive can do attitude really shines through 💚 I'm sure people notice it. Even if first impressions don't show everything, people can feel your good energy. And it leaves a lasting impression.
Thank you. This is very sweet of you to say.
@reservedOwl321
I stand and walk strange for various reasons, and the look of pain and worry. If I am stressed my body twists. Hard to explain . I know it is the first thing people see because they ask strange are you ok questions which actually makes it worse.
I really wouldn't want to stand out and would prefer to be relatively invisible. If anything Id like my positive can do attitude to stand out.
@BlueDarkAurora I'd hope to notice my welcoming energy. I've never really thought about meeting myself tbh but id definitely notice the energy I seek to give off😣
@kaiawaia aw welcoming energy is so needed in today's world n_n Sometimes even a simple smile feels rare. So thank you for being your wonderful self 💚
@BlueDarkAurora what a great question 🥰 I think people would notice my humour, but I would like to think they'd notice my kindness 💜🥰
@Amanda84 Thank you, so sweet 💜
The first thing I noticed about you was your kindness, you're overflowing with it *-* haha And yep you're pretty great at humour too.
@BlueDarkAurora im very funny, right? 🤣 Thank you for your kind words 💜🥰
@Amanda84
@BlueDarkAurora
Lolol I was actually just thinking about this day today, like how do other people percieve me and how am I really. And my conclusion was I don't really care how people percieve me as, one person can see me as the most confident person while the other one can see me as the most insecure one. One person can see me as the skinniest person they have ever met while someone else might think I am the fattest one they've ever seen. One person can see me as beautiful and kind and the other as mean and ugly. But all these prejudices don't form the person I am today. As long as I know that I am beautiful, full of love, bright energy, smart and oveall have the best smile. Why does it care that anyone else doesn't agree. If I were to be another person I would defenitely first notice my energy, like this gurlie right here has such bubbly energy, which I love that's why I love myself
@Iwilltrulylisten3 Totally agree :) The way we see ourselves can shape our whole world. Love how you put that. You do have a bubbly energy ^-^