If you met yourself as a stranger, what would you notice first?
Would it be the way you carry yourself, the way you speak or the energy you give off? And what part of you would you hope to stand out?
The energy ,the aura
@aquaShade7240 Nice 💙
@BlueDarkAurora
Hi, I love this question. I was here sitting and thinking for a good while on what I would notice about myself. Before I give my answer, I wanted to share my thought process. The first thing that came to mind was my overall disposition, how I interact with people, who I am when I am meeting someone for the first time. These thought helped me reflect on myself as an individual and to step outside of my world for a few moments.
After all that thinking and reflecting, I believe as a stranger I would notice my mannerism of intently listening to the person I am speaking too. For instance, this question made me realize that I actively listen to people when they speak to me so that I can say something meaningful to them. I also think as a stranger I would notice my quiet demeanour as well, because only until I thought about answering this question did I realize that I can be reserved and a little shy in the beginning.
Anyway, I would love to hear what you would think about yourself as a stranger!
@MellowMary76 Hi, I'm glad to know that you loved the question, I really enjoyed your response and the way you framed it. It's fun to see the thought process behind what someone chooses to share.
Your active listening and being able to respond in a meaningful way are great qualities 💙 I'm happy you decided to share your response even though you were reserved and shy about it at first.
For me, I'd say it's the same. I'm very reserved when meeting someone for the first time but I observe things in my own way. I'll probably notice that I'm introverted or maybe just a little shy but with a sweet smile ^-^
The energy..
@braveHeart9005 nice 💙
I would think omg why is this girl so ugly
Noooooo not at all! I’d notice your sweet smile first <3
@yourgurlly you're unique and beautiful in your own way 💙 I'm sure people will be drawn to your kindness, warmth and ofcourse your sweet smile as jesusredeemedme2425 said ^-^
Thank u so much means a lott
@yourgurlly
@yourgurlly Never think that and anyone that makes you feel this way, is not worth your time 💜🥰
I'd notice how unappealing I am - ugly, fat, and sloppy
@WharfRat Im sorry you feel that way about yourself but I've seen you around the forums and you come across as kind, easy to talk to and approachable, I hope you know that 💜🥰
@WharfRat It's really sad to feel that way 💙 But I believe that if you met yourself as a stranger your kind heart would help you see all the good things about you.
We're often hard on ourselves but when we look at ourselves the way others do, we can see the light we carry more clearly.
Maybe my down head
@jimmy153673 what's a down head? 💙