I feel the most misunderstood when.... [finish this sentence]

I feel the most misunderstood when I'm trying to explain something, but am a horrible explainer, and people get offended when I never intended to do so...I would never hurt anyone's feelings..

I feel the most misunderstood when trying to explain to my boyfriend who has cheated on me multiple times how bad it actually feels and that it's not easy to offer him chances to prove he's changed. He doesn't get why trust isn't immediate and I always end up the bad guy when trying to explain myself. I'm so frustrated.

People blame me.

I try to be my odd self openly and someone says something offensive.

I feel most misunderstood when I can't seem to get someone to see me for who I really am. It's definitely a frustrating experience.

When people try to re-intepret me, tell me who I am, what is the best for me, what is it I truly need or want, OVER MY explanations of my own intentions, reasons and desires that I had VOICED OUT. I've had to deal with this since young, so I had little awareness how damaging it is, how low my self-esteem has gotten and how I automatically try to please people who I shouldn't have paid any attention or taken seriously.

I tell a woman I want to sleep with her. Because all I want is to feel someone breathing in my arms. I don't want sex, sometimes I just want to hold her.

I feel the most misunderstood when my thoughts and feelings are pushed aside and I'm expected to act like everything's okay.

When I can't express my feelings well

I feel the most misunderstood when in social situations. I may be reserved and quiet but it's because I'm really anxious, not because I don't want to speak to someone or get close to them.