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One thing I have never told anyone is....[finish this sentence}

User Profile: Laura
Laura June 17th, 2016

Just... blurt it out! Don't be nervous! Make your secrets not so secret....

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User Profile: navinnawarankita491
navinnawarankita491 July 14th, 2016

@Laura that I often used to think of running away from home.

July 14th, 2016

I did an abortion once because i was too scared to be a mother.. I didnt even tell my husband about it.. Regretted the decision everyday since..

July 14th, 2016

I have a drug problem and no one knows it. This is my first admission to this.

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User Profile: TransAm85
TransAm85 July 14th, 2016

@Olivia9249 I do as well, but my husband thinks I stopped 2 years ago. I am just very good at hiding things. I like pain medication.

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User Profile: stardustforever
stardustforever July 14th, 2016

I'm always depressed

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User Profile: GentleKiteFly
GentleKiteFly July 14th, 2016

@stardustforever Oww it be okay me too. Well try to make you smile

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User Profile: oliveTiger9832
oliveTiger9832 July 14th, 2016

My husband has been hitting me for years

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User Profile: Imaginethestrength
Imaginethestrength July 14th, 2016

@oliveTiger9832 --- It takes a tough soul to put up with that. I think the most beauty of your secret is he cannot hit you for saying what you said here heart

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User Profile: koreaboo
koreaboo July 14th, 2016

I always have a fake mask on, concealing my real emotions

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User Profile: GentleKiteFly
GentleKiteFly July 14th, 2016

@koreaboo Oww well I think under the mask your really cool :D

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User Profile: GentleKiteFly
GentleKiteFly July 14th, 2016

That I actually don't know who I am anymore.

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User Profile: GentleKiteFly
GentleKiteFly July 21st, 2016

@GentleKiteFly so sad but yah haha you will get through it

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User Profile: MissSA
MissSA July 14th, 2016

I haven't been able to move on.. Even though it's one year. What do I do? How do I get him off my mind?

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User Profile: GentleKiteFly
GentleKiteFly July 14th, 2016

@MissSA well this is going to sound weird but this is how I trained myself to move on from something. Everytime you think of that person or thing she say in your mind who's that? What? Who is that eventually your mind will stop and you will move on its just how I did it. :D it's my opinion it's up to you though

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 14th, 2016

@kuvira654 The main only saw me as a friend, but the alter I love, he loved me back. I don't know where it would have gone, as he was sent away because of his issues. We aren't allowed to see each other or talk over text or email. I don't think falling in love with someone's alter is a bad thing, but I'm not sure how those kinds of relationships can work out. What happened in your experience?

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 14th, 2016

@12563692

In my case, he loved someone else, but I only found out around two or three weeks ago. I've fallen in love in mid- April, and we had started a relationship, until he broke up with me a little after. He didn't tell me right away he loved another, and it took me a while to even be told. I also know the person he is in love with... So it was a major shock when I found out all this last week on Thursday. It makes a week today. I feel completely devastated and don't know what to do.

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 14th, 2016

@Kuvira654 I am so sorry, it must be awful to find that out. Honestly, I'm not sure if there is much that you can do. Being around them often hurts, but not being around them enough is equally painful. If I were you, I would try to focus on other parts of my life. Things have a habit of working themselves out and eventuality you will be happy. When and with whom is another story.

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 14th, 2016

@12563692

It hurts like hell, I assure you of that. I've tried, nothing helped. I'm stuck

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 14th, 2016

@Kuvira654 Not to pry, but stuck doing what, exactly? You say stuck as in stuck in life, probably feeling like you won't ever get out of your current position or you feel as if you cannot do anything to make a change. Are you stuck in any other aspects of your life?

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 15th, 2016

@12563692

I feel stuck in this particular point in life, don't know what I should do

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 15th, 2016

@Kuvira654 Honestly, I have no idea how to help you. What has worked for me will most likely not help for you, as the circumstances are quite different. Have you spoken to anyone else about this?

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 15th, 2016

@12563692

yes, several people. None know how to help me. I'm close to giving up....

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 15th, 2016

@Kuvira654 Define giving up... I understand the appeal of harming oneself, I have attempted suicide several times myself. However, as someone almost six months free from cutting or the like, I also understand what people mean when they say it gets better.

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 15th, 2016

@12563692

Just giving up on it ever getting better......... feels like I never will again. This was just an event. I've been depressed for over a year now. It won't stop

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 15th, 2016

@Kuvira654 I was depressed for over three years, I attempted suicide over six times and I thought nothing would change how I felt. When I was with the alter, I thought that it would make me happy. Now that he has gone, I'm actually better. At first, it was awful, but over time I realized that I was better off- physically and mentally. You never know how your actions may change things. Even things you think will harm you may actually do the opposite. Is there anything I can do to help you in your current situation?

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 15th, 2016

@12563692

I just cried my eyes out. I think I just need to recharge and get away from stressful things for a while....thank you for listening, you've already helped

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User Profile: 12563692
12563692 July 15th, 2016

@Kuvira654 I wish you well and I hope that your actions being you happiness

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User Profile: Kuvira654
Kuvira654 July 15th, 2016

@12563692

Thank you

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User Profile: unaffliated
unaffliated July 14th, 2016

I never told anyone I need help too...I may act strong but if given more consideration for my feelings would be nice...

another.... I was in love with a guy and he made me finally realize that I have to love myself more because even when honest people don't care.