One thing I have never told anyone is....[finish this sentence}
Just... blurt it out! Don't be nervous! Make your secrets not so secret....
I am not fine. I troubled and depressed. I never told anyone that I am being abused by my boyfriend in all forms, physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. I didnt tell anyone that the the bruises in my face, my neck, my chest and the pains in my arms, my shoulders, my rib, my legs, my feet is not due to small accidents in my apartment, it is actually the trace of his physical assault, choking, kick, punch, slap. I didnt tell anyone that the company gadgets that company issued to me are no more, he broke them all. I didnt tell anyone that I i have been over spending because, I am in debt, I am in financial shortage because my boyfriend have very high financial need. I didnt tell anyone that I am abused. I didnt tell anyone that I desperately need help. I need help. I am afraid. I dont know what should I do.
@pcescan
I didn't tell anyone either for 10 years. You are not alone. It is not your fault.
@pcescan
Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224
It's there if you need it. Hope your situation gets better.
It might not be uncommon, but the one thing I've never said out loud is "I'm not okay, I'm not fine. I'm nothing." Sorry, maybe a bit dramatical, but that's what I've almost always thought of when I talk about my problems to my closest friends. I always tell them "but I'm okay now, don't worry."
I always feel like a bad person who deserves to feel unhappy.
I self-harm, and I see no reason to stop...
@HiMyNamesDepressed
This is my secret too! I came on here to see if anyone else is the same... But, I think it's good talk to someone... because, in my case, if I keep on going I'm worried about where it'll end... someone will notice? I permenantly damage myself? I think it's best to tell someone... have to get up the nerve
I was molested when I was 6 by my neighbor.
@Laura
I never told anyone that I am not fine. I am abused. I am scared and I need help.
@Laura I've forgotten how to know what I want independent of everyone else's expectations.
@Laura One thing I have never told anyone is how much it hurts inside.
Besides my sister and maybe my parents, i have never told anyone that I actually pick and bite the skin on my thumb. Whenever anyone notices my thumb, they think I've burned it or I tell them that. It can hurt sometimes that I have to put a bandaid on. But I just can't help myself that it never really heals. For a long time, I thought it was a habit, but turns out I have a condition called dermatillomania. It's not too serious like it is for some people where they've got scars all over their body from the picking, but still, it's not good to be doing.
I have a binge eating problem that often happens when I am unhappy, tired, or stressed out by something.
@HappyAndReady
Same is the case with me