Hi, I'm Kiara!
Hi! I’m going by Kiara (my Lion King II inspired pseudonym!).
I’m a young adult, and I’m a born-again Christian (hence the username!). I love reading, drawing, computers, and serving others. I love doing events with my friends like movie nights.
I have multiple issues such as autism, OCD, mild Tourette’s, sensory issues, severe depression, ADD, GAD, and more. I’ve had a lot of hard stuff going on lately, such as family members dying, discrimination, and many other things. I just had my third mental breakdown… Things have been super rough lately.
I would love to know if anyone has had any similar experiences, can give me advice or encouragement, or just wants to be friends and talk! Hope to hear from you soon :)
@jesusredeemedme2425
Hi Kiara, welcome to 7Cups! I'm sorry to hear that things have been rough lately, but I'm glad you're here. We're all happy to support you <3
Here is a welcome pack with some information to help you get settled :)
-Elliot
@jesusredeemedme2425 I have lots of disabilities and other issues, but none that you have, I cant imagine how hard it is for you 😥 gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ I'm already your friend ❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
And you are the bestest friend ever!!!!!!! <3
It's ok, I know you love me and empathize even if you don't have what I have <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 hii. sounds like you have a hard life but its inspiring to know that you don't seem to be put out by it. I don't have diagnosed tourrettes but when I was 15 a neck tick began and now I'm 17 and its mildly worsened over the years. when I'm cold (goes off during wintertime like crazy) or my anxiety is worse than it usually is or just randomly sometimes my neck will jerk to the right really fast.
I also suffer from mild yearly depression and severe seasonal depression and high anxiety lol. so your not alone!!! while I cant say that I go through as much as you do on a daily basis, I can say that its remarkable your so open about it too. good for you!!!
hi kiara! my name’s abi. i don’t have a pseudonym like you do, although i feel like that would be really cool :))
i personally don’t know what it’s like to have ocd, tourette’s, or autism, but i can relate to having adhd(or add), depressive episodes, (mild) sensory issues, and grief.
i’m also a christian <3 and i think it’s cool that you added that into your introduction. i’m sure that God must be please with you :)
some advice i would give you is to do things that ground you when things get really hard. what helps me is texting friends about seemingly silly things. even if it’s completely unrelated, sometimes it helps just to talk to someone about anything really. it doesn’t help all of the time, but it can help you calm down and bring you out of a breakdown.
another thing is to go to God with what’s on your mind. we will always have to deal with painful things, but God’s presence gives us peace and joy despite the pain❤️ you can go to God by praying, reading the bible, or even just listening to some christian music. sometimes when i’m having a hard time finding the motivation, i turn on some christian music and just pray while showering. it might not work for everyone, but i hope that helps haha!
the most important strategy is to look forward to something in the near future. if you’re having a hard night, maybe think about tomorrow’s breakfast, or seeing someone or something that makes you feel happy. you could think about the birthday discounts you can get at stores and restaurants, or maybe even starting a new hobby or activity. it doesn’t have to be something necessarily important!
don’t forget to be kind to yourself! i can tell you are a lovely person with a big heart❤️
@ilovedietcoke
Hi, Abi! What pseudonym would you give yourself if you had one? <3
I’m sorry you have to deal with all those :( Wanna talk about it? <3
Awww yay! A fellow Christian <3 What are your beliefs?
I do that with 7Cups hehe… Half the posts in the fun section seem to be mine lol! XD
I love that strategy, Christian music while showering! <3
Hmmm… I get to see my coworkers tomorrow and give them a TON of desserts to share <3
Awww thank you <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Howdy,
We've already talked on other posts, but i'll properly introduced myself.
My name is Paige; call me Geode, call me Paige, i'm not concerned as long as you don't call me anything insulting roflol.
I'm a self proclaimed Jesusfreak
I love reading, writing, playing video games, collecting rocks, hiking, cooking, listening to music, dancing, etc. I also dabble in video editing, candle making, and other crafty things. As long as I'm motivated anyway
The main issues that i've been dealing with are stress, burnout, and depression. It's a long story.....
@Geodegirl
My mom sometimes quotes a family member who said, “I don’t care what you call me, just don’t call me late for dinner!” hehe
I like calling you Geode hehe! Kinda makes me think of that one Pokemon whose name I can’t remember lol
Me too hehe, but a shyer one lol
Ooh I used to collect rocks too <3 I love fool’s gold! I love shiny things hehe. I must be part crow. Lol
I’m here to listen if you wanna share <3