women places online(rant)

Hi this is the first time I post in this forum or the site in general.

And sorry for mistakes English is not my first language

I am a woman from Iraq, I am not allowed to go outside alone or with my friends.( only with my family).Same thing with living alone and travelling.

So internet is the only place, or I thought so.

Every time I browse women groups (in both Arabic and English) on any app or site I find these issue:

1-Men invading these places.( And no, a lot of them are not here for learning, they are here to tell women to shut up in their own places).

2-Very obvious concern trolling.( example: instead of "women should stay at home", they say "um actually women working are not helping in defeating capitalism").

3-They only support if the woman is 100% prefect, and the man is a monster and has zero aspect of humanity. Anything other than that, you will find people who dismiss and victim blame and by default support the man perspective.

4-Some of them blame the majority of sexism on women to dismiss sexism by men.

5-False equivalence.

The thing is, I do not know why only women groups are like this? I can find Arab groups that has zero racism just fine. I can find groups for other topics that free from all of that just fine.

sexism is not only coming from conservatives but also from left leaning too cuz I see it loudly in all these places.

I do not think this world has place for me at this point.