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Where do I get strength from to overcome my pain when it seems that no one cares?

Profile: Hotchocolate7
Hotchocolate7 on Jan 15, 2015
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 16, 2015
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I often feel as if no one cares about how I feel, and all I want is for them to see that I'm sad and Lonley. Trying to get over that feeling is one of the hardest things in the world. However, when that little voice pops up in my head I talk back, I won't let it overtake me anymore. I tell myself that there are people who love me and if they knew I felt this was they wouldn't leave me alone. The reason I started talking back to that voice is because I remembered who I am and how great every person is, because we are individuals whose voices can move nations. We are important because everyday we make a difference in someone else's life. I tell that little voice that I care, and people that I will meet in the future care. There are people out there who need me to care for them and show them that someone loves them. Finding yourself is one of the longest hardest journies we all have to make, but first you have to remember that you are bigger than what you think, you can change the world.
Profile: FrostyFireworks18
FrostyFireworks18 on May 20, 2015
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You find your strength from within yourself, in other words something you're passionate about and expresses it. You will feel like you have something to be confident in and that you don't need anyone else. For example, writing, painting, singing, etc.
Profile: supportiveFreedom51
supportiveFreedom51 on Aug 10, 2015
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When no one seemed to care about my depression, or my pain, I Got my strength from God and the fact that he loves me no matter what :)
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Anonymous on Oct 30, 2018
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It's really difficult situation in life when no one cares for you and no one acknowledging your pain. But sometimes we has to care for ourselves no matter what. Self care is most important thing to deal with pain. Rather than anyone else in life we must ackowledge our feelings and our emotions. You should find ways to release your pain by crying it out, writing journals or expressing it with Art or whatever is comfortable for you. Do it on your own pace. Self compassion works best. You can try self compassion meditations as well. Involve youself in any activity in a day. And in life you should try to connect with new people who will care for you, may be you will get good connections on 7cups itself.
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Anonymous on Jan 15, 2015
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In trying to help others who are also going through a tough time as I want to try and make the world a brighter place
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therapinto on Mar 29, 2015
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You can talk to a 7 cups listener. Click here: www.7cups.com/browselisteners you can choose from a list of trained listeners on the basis of age, category, country, language, availability, screen name, cheers, chats and listener rating.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 10, 2015
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Where? From you. You can get strength from yourself. Overcome this pain for yourself. Do yourself a favor. You care for yourself so don't hesitate to overcome this pain of yours.
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No one cares? Think again. What are all of these amazing people doing here on 7Cups, then? We all care. Please know that you are never alone, sweetie. Someone cares. Someone will always care.
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Anonymous on Apr 23, 2015
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Guess what, you care about yourself. That is the most important. Who is the one to pick you up off the floor when you are sad? You! The strength to recovery always comes from within you.
Profile: RainBowHolic
RainBowHolic on Jun 14, 2015
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Hello, i will write from my experience about from where I get strength to overcome my pain when it seems that no one cares. Well, I am an artist, so expressing my self is a important thing to me. When I feel any kind of pain or sadness, and no one wants to or can't listen to me, or don't care, I try to show my pain in a drawings. I draw what i feel. And in the end, when I see my pain in a object, it feels like pain was lefted in a drawing whit every stroke of my pencil and I do feel better, because drawing is my way of resting.
Profile: tjb28
tjb28 on Nov 30, 2015
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I have also experienced ongoing pain and completely know where you are coming from it isnt easy or a nice thing but I always try to think positive and things that you are experiencing at the moment will make you stronger as a person in the future take care,rest and seek advice from professionals
Profile: FoxInTheBox
FoxInTheBox on Dec 21, 2015
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From within yourself. Self-confidence and belief go a long way! It "seems" no one cares, but you will never know unless you try actively, right? Just mount up a bit of courage inside, fight off all the negativity, and you will get better by the day.
Profile: calmLove29
calmLove29 on Dec 28, 2015
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think that somebody out in that world doesn't want you to leave, be sad or be in any pain. if it is serious contact professionals
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Anonymous on May 17, 2016
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True strength is from your inner self. Only YOU can truly tell yourself how amazing you are, and how you will overcome this.
Profile: Mentor9
Mentor9 on Oct 4, 2016
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You should sleep! Sleep helps deal a lot of issues and emotions. Drink a lot of water. Spend more time doing things that help your mind getting busy. Love and care for yourself, when you will start caring for yourself, people will understand your worth!
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Anonymous on Dec 5, 2017
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I often find my strength in the fact few others seem to be worried in it, not realising how serious the issue is. I delve deep down to find strength in myself that i can use here and now...
Profile: proudPeace77
proudPeace77 on Jul 28, 2020
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You can listen to your favourite music, do some meditation or yoga, or maybe a bit of martial arts, what about painting or playing a musical instrument? It is important that you develop your self worth, then you will be stronger next time you feel vulnerable. Maybe make yourself a mindfullness checklist and put it on your kitchen wall, something like. 1. Read a book 2. Take 5 deep breaths 3. Bake a cake 4. Go for a walk 5. Watch my favourite tv programme. When you have done one or all of these things, you could tick them off on your list, then you will feel like you have achieved something, and you can read it back to yourself when you are feeling down.
Profile: Cyanadium
Cyanadium on Mar 9, 2022
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It can be difficult to struggle with pain, and that pain can be made even worse when no one recognizes it. However, even though it may seem no one cares, there is always someone that does. That someone is you. You care. Don't let your anxiety and overthinking beat you down. You can do this. If not for anyone else, do it for yourself because at the end of the day the only person you see everyday is yourself, and you should try no to let what others think or dont think of you get in the way to your goal of self improvement
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