I hate my husband or wife. Why?

A lot of times we marry someone who has a lot of charaqcteristics of one of our parents. We are replicating a relationship we are used to and in somer way also trying to heal ourselves by creating again the situations that wounded us and hoping we can overcome it. Just as our parents push our buttonns and made us feel strong emotions and even hate so too our spouses arouse ths same emotions in us and a times we hate them

It might not be hate your feeling. Sometimes when people are together for a long time in a living situation or just a relationship, they grow to resent them and pick out all their flaws because they know them too well and have been around them for too long. You should sift through this and find out if it really is hate or just a mess of emotions you've never really confronted.

Workaholic, disrespects woman/man, rude, miser/greedy, dowry, false allegations, playboy, unfaithful, cheater, selfish

you may not be in love with her or him anymore, you may have stopped having sexual attractions to him or her?

Is it because they are abusive towards you? Or something in particular they did that made you upset?

Talk to them about it, it may actually help you. Because they might never know and then you divorce them and they be like: Whaaa?

Usually it's because of something you have done and feel guilty about and are projecting it onto them, or they have done something that has hurt you and you feel you can't forgive them for it, or you just no longer love them but don't want to leave them so hate them because of the situation you are in. Usually it's emotional or situational between the two of you. Communication often helps or if you feel it's right, leaving can help.

You might hate them because they might have mistreated you or they are too busy and not paying enough attention to you. Try to get them to be more active or talk to them.

Listen, lack of communication may be why you Two are "disconnected" try speaking to eachother, respect eachother opinions and emotions and try to come up with a compromise.

I'm not in your shoes, so I don't know why, but you should try to figure out the reason why you feel that way. Did they abuse you? Did something which upset you? How long have you felt this way? Did you tell them?

I have felt this way about someone before but its may not be hate but a feeling that we consider hate. Sometimes we misunderstand our feelings and go with them when they may not be correct.

Only you can answer this. I can assume you are harboring resentment towards them, but the question for you is why? What did they do to make you stop loving them?

I hated my husband during a very dark time in my life. When I look back, I realize that I actually hated myself.

It could be due to some issues you could be having, which you could talk to them about and try to identify the problem or it could be due to loss of attraction

Only you can really answer that question. Would you say you resent them for something they have done in the past? Or perhaps a bad habit they have? Ask yourself those questions and maybe you'll find the answer.

Maybe you don't like doing nothing. I think most married people dont don't enough together. If that's the case try getting out more with your patner.

Because your relation isint mutual anymore. If you really hate them then you need to talk it out or try couple therapy

Maybe something is happened between you too and you don't talk and don't solve it ! why not trying to try counseling ?

Trick question, I don't hate him. I hate that he makes everything look so easy sometimes. It can be frustrating for me when I can't get something as quickly as he does, but I love that he is willing to take the extra few minutes to help me out.

We never hate anyone for all the time but due to time and situations which is not in our favour makes us image in our mind with a word hate which can leads very great impact.we will never be in a condition for hating somebody if we stop trying to control or dominate others and if we can control our ego such things never make us to hate anybody