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RaspberryRaptor
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Feeling tired of existing
Depression Support / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 July 27th
...See more Yeah just feeling tired of existing right now. Life feels so weird and sad. I feel like disocoated from the world and everything just feels really weird for me. I don't wanna feel like I'm being judged by people either or feel like I'm a bad person. I feel like I'm trying to be a good person but sometimes I just don't have the energy to put in the effort, I don't know.
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Really hard Replying to people
ADHD Support / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 July 24th
...See more It's really hard for me to reply to someone and it happens a lot, I just either forget or I get anxious and realize months later that I haven't replied. It kind of sucks cause I try to make online friends, or keep in contact with people but then bc it's hard to get myself to message or talk to them, just don't really have that much of a social circle sometimes or friends. Does anyone else relate? Is it an ADHD thing? When I do this it seems like I do it to the absolute extreme
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I need help and I'm stuck with this
Trauma Support / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 July 5th
...See more Hi, i wanted to post here because I had some stuff on my mind and I didn't really know how to handle it on my own. So, basically my mom when I was younger forced me to go like everywhere with her where she wanted and she was pretty controlling too, like where I didn't really get to have my own life. I like only had my mother around to talk to for some of the time, and she was really disconnected with the world and wasn't really the best role model, she was angry a lot and would yell. I was just thinking about that today, and later after that happened, I had a time where I just didn't know how to do a lot of basic stuff. I didn't even know how to think properly, i didn't know how to take care of my life. I was really clingy to my brother and I used to people please a lot. I neglected myself really badly, and I was just looking back at my life and realized I wasn't really even trying in my life a lot of the time I just watched YouTube all the time, but my brother was better at doing stuff for his life, but it might of been because my mom was harder on him to work and my mom had like a weird mindset that guys should work for women while women do nothing. So was I like how I was because what I went through or was it because I was just lazy? I was really depressed as well so maybe that will help. But now after that situation, I just feel like so disconnected and I feel like a bad person because I'm struggling to put effort into relationships and my own life. I just feel so weird about how I couldn't even think properly, like I was just sitting in my room for like a long time because I didn't know how to think through my problems or other stuff really. Idk if that's weird, I feel really isolated about it and I feel like a bad person a lot of the time. I wasted a lot of time because of how my mind wasn't very active and I feel really sad about it. I just wanted to ask about your guys opinions I guess, could I not think we'll because of how my mom raised me and can you guys relate to it? I just really need help and idk what else to say. I feel like this messed up my life a lot, and I'm struggling to see a way forward. Idk I'm just sad. Sorry this post is kinda all over the place, I was depressed while writing. I'm trying not to think of this stuff anymore, but I keep thinking about past stuff when I'm trying to heal from the self neglect and start taking care of my life again. It feels like I don't have much control over that sometimes and I just really need help. Any replies would be really appreciated
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Adhd stuggles
ADHD Support / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 March 29th
...See more Hi, I recently got diagnosed with ADHD. I think it explains what I was going through before, I was like really stuck and couldn't get myself to do anything and couldn't move, like I couldn't function very good at all. I think it's cause ADHD and some other mental disorders I was diagnosed with, but I feel like some people with ADHD were able to function better than me, so I don't know. I wish I got medicated sooner tho lol
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Vent??
Self-Esteem / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 January 29th
...See more So I kinda wanted to get this off my chest a little bit, so I have been sad for awhile because I was living my life with pretty low self esteem. For some reason I would like people please a ton and just not even care about my own needs and wants, it fell into like self abandonment I guess. I Feel like I lived years of my life not living for me but living for other people who didn't even really need me to or care about me doing it. I don't know lol I'm trying to get better and prioritize myself but sometimes fall back into doing it
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Accountability buddy
Motivation & Accountability / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 November 8th, 2025
...See more Hi! would anyone like to be accountability buddies? I've been struggling with habits and I feel like I can't break them on my own right now.. I'm trying to stop doom scrolling and other bad habits, keep up certain habits, and get better at taking care of my mental health. So it would be super cool to have someone to help.. I'll also be happy to help you with habits you want to change. I made a post about this before but I can't find it to check the comments 😭
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Looking for accountability buddy
Motivation & Accountability / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 October 6th, 2025
...See more Hello! I've been struggling a lot with bad habits with self control and self car. I'm wondering if anyone would like to be accountability partners? I can also help keep you accountable too.
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Wasted time
Depression Support / by RaspberryRaptor
Last post
 September 14th, 2025
...See more Hey just wondering if anyone else feels like they wasted alot of their youth?, like years, because of mental health struggles and also just internet addiction? I keep feeling alone in this, cause I keep on seeing people who genuinely got to enjoy those times, and it just makes me kinda sad cause it feels like I'm alone in this sometimes. I'm still young but I still wasted years of it and it kinda just sucks
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