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Trixmx618
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts109 Forum posts20 Forum upvotes16 Current upvotes16 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2026 Member sinceJanuary 5, 2021
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Loss of relationship due to accident
Grief & Loss / by Trixmx618
Last post
 September 26th
...See more I was dating my ex for a year until I accidentally gave her 19-year-old cat's medication earlier than scheduled, which resulted in her having medical complications and having to be euthanized. The relationship ended quickly from there because I had to leave the house. I would never hurt her or any of her animals; I cared deeply. Instead, she tells everyone that I'm a murderer and that what I did is unforgivable. It hurts so much to see her in pain. I stay away because I know she doesn't want anything to do with me. This week was tough because the cat's passing happened around this time last year. I'm in therapy and working on focusing on myself. I've managed to regain my independence since I was kicked out of the place we lived. She also said I was with her just to have a place to stay. I never asked for money, and I always paid for whatever was needed in the house. Even without a steady income, I found ways to survive while she was financially secure, supported by her mom and disability. I know the relationship wasn't balanced, but I still care and feel bad about everything that happened. She knows how genuine I am and that I cared for her as no one else did. She was the happiest ever. I haven't reached out because she doesn't want any contact. It hurts...
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Is it appropriate to send a friend request to ex?
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 May 12th
...See more I haven't seen or heard from her since January. We had to end the relationship because she could not forgive me for accidentally overdosing her 19-year-old cat. I care so deeply still, but it seems like I have to continue to let her heal.
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Forgiveness
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 April 27th
...See more Would you forgive someone for accidentally overdosing your 18-year-old dog with their medication? As a result of this accident, the dog had to be euthanized. This person was a loving and caring individual who took on the responsibility of being the primary caregiver in the relationship. They took on a multitude of responsibilities and ensured their partner's happiness. They loved that dog so much and spent time every day with them. They were perfect and made life worth living again, but they are being called a murderer for their mistake.
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Grieving loss
Grief & Loss / by Trixmx618
Last post
 April 8th
...See more I was in a long-term relationship and I became the caregiver. They had a lot of animals and various health conditions. I adapted because I loved them. They were able to live a happier life because I showed them that they deserve it. There were better relationships with family and they were just bubbly. Things were great, but there was an accident involving an animal that resulted in the passing. The guilt and shame I feel regarding the situation haunt me every day. I took accountability for my actions, but it wasn't enough. I respect that and care deeply. I know I need to forgive myself for what I did and the trauma I caused. It's just so hard because I love them and still care. How can I manage these emotions?
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Moving on
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 April 26th
...See more I was in a long-term relationship and I became the caregiver. They had a lot of animals and various health conditions. I adapted because I loved them. They were able to live a happier life because I showed them that they deserve it. There were better relationships with family and they were just bubbly. Things were great, but there was an accident involving an animal that resulted in the passing. The guilt and shame I feel regarding the situation haunt me every day. I took accountability for my actions, but it wasn't enough. I respect that and care deeply. I know I need to forgive myself for what I did and the trauma I caused. It's just so hard because I love them and still care. How can I manage these emotions?
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Feelings overpowering
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 March 31st
...See more Hello all, I am struggling with not reaching out to my ex partner. We were dating for a year and lived together. I made a mistake of overdosing her cat. It's been 7 months since I've seen her and 3 months since we've spoken. She was responsive but felt like I pushed too hard when I asked if she was ok and called her several hours apart. Last she said was "Leave me alone, you are acting psycho."
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What to do in this situation?
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more I have surgery on April 2nd, and I've been telling friends and family. I was in a relationship last year that lasted well over one year. My mistake in giving her 19-year-old cat an earlier dose of her medication resulted in having to euthanize her the day the relationship ended. It's been seven months since I've seen her. But we sort of stay in touch.. the last time I spoke to her. I called her twice because I was concerned. |texted her to make sure she was ok. But she told me to leave her alone. That was February and we haven't spoken since. I want to tell her that I will be having surgery, but I don't think it's the right move because she might think I'm asking for pity.
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Feel like a bad person.
Relationship Stress / by Trixmx618
Last post
 February 25th
...See more I accidentally gave my ex's 19-year-old cat an earlier dose of her medication which caused her to have to be euthanized the next day. I was taking care of my ex by letting her sleep in after her infusion. It was a mistake and she believes I murdered her.
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