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Number of ratings10 Number of reviews9 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceSep 1, 2022 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 5,525 People helped29 Chats189 Group support chats72 Listener group chats152 Forum posts263 Forum upvotes456
Bio

Last Updated: 21/7/2025 @ 10:15pm

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Gender Non-Binary | Age 37 | Pronouns They/Them/Their | Country United Kingdom | Time zone GMT/BST

 | Work Senior Moderator for a popular Roblox game within their Discord Server

Sorry! I am not accepting casual chat requests!

My availability is limited and responses may not be fast

You can book an appointment by sending me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can.
If you need to speak to someone more urgently, you can find another listener here: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/

✅💟Roles on 7 cups💟✅

✅ = Active | ❌ = Not currently active in this role

💟Verified Listener ✅ 

💟Adult-Teen Listener (ATL)✅

I can speak to, help and support teens on 7 Cups.

💟Doorkeeper ✅

I help to open and close chatrooms for discussions and events.

💟Peer Support ✅

I offer support to listeners after difficult chats

💟Quality Mentor - pending

I help and support listeners to improve their skills and further their potential.

Listeners can request a Quality Mentor to support them in their Listener journey even if you are not a new Listener.

Find a Mentor

Mentors can also assist Mentees to become verified.

How to become a Verified Listener (blue checkmark)

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 ❗️Boundaries❗️

These boundaries are very strict and must be followed, failure to do so could result in further chats being discontinued.

  • All chats must be pre-booked following the information at the top of my profile, booked appointments will be for one hour (60 minutes).


  • Chats without an appointment will be deleted without a reply.


  • If you are a listener and need support, please use your member account to seek personal support, if you need a Quality Mentor, see information above under "Quality Mentor".


  • I will not tolerate disrespect or abuse of any kind, if this occurs, I will issue you a warning, if this behaviour continues, I will block future communication and report accordingly.


  • If you are not satisfied with our chat, please tell me, don't just ignore/leave the conversation, I can assist in connecting you to another listener who may be more suitable.


  • I am male (although non-binary) - If you prefer to speak to a female, please let me know and I will try to arrange to transfer you to a female listener.


  • All chats will remain confidential.


  • Please ensure your chat category (i.e., Parenting, LGBTQ+, Anxiety) is correct, so that I only accept chats I am open to helping, this is to avoid me having to ask you to find another listener.


  • Chats that begin to make me feel uncomfortable will be terminated.


  • I have a very busy life, I have work and children, this criteria to to help me manage my time effectively, I please ask you to respect it.


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🚫 These chats are off limits 🚫

This list does is not intended to offend anyone, in fact, I do not want to discuss these issues because either: It isn't in any area of my expertise and feel I won't be able to help you, It may be an issue from my past that is too painful to go back to or I don't want to discuss these topics for another reason

| Addiction | Adoption/Foster Care | Alcohol/Drug Abuse | Cancer | Chronic Pain | Exercise Motivation | Financial Stress | Grief | Racial & Cultural | Schizophrenia | Weight Management | Women's Issues |

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❤️ Take care and keep safe ❤️

Recent forum posts
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Life is a rollercoaster!
Depression Support / by iCareUK
Last post
 June 24th, 2024
...See more Life is a rollercoaster! No matter who you are, what gender you are, your age, skin colour, whether you have disabilities etc, life is a rollercoaster! I have been away from 7cups for a while because once again, my life went on a rollercoaster and we cannot stop it, but one thing is for sure... it's there for a reason! Sometimes, we may not know that reason and sometimes we might, all kinds of great and devastating things can happen spaced out or all at once and it can definitely affect our mood, health and well-being. Some things are there to build us up and make us stronger, some things will make us more grateful for what we already have in life.. no matter how poor we think we are (this isn't meaning money) - This could be poor in friendships, relationships, necessities and just a happy balance in life. I have often felt alone, sometimes I like it that way because it gives me a time for some self-reflection, I haven't been able to work for a while for multiple reasons although... I REALLY want to get back to work! No matter how sad my life can be at times, I am immensely grateful for the following things in my life that money cannot EVER buy: * My parents * My children * The great relationship with my children's mum even though we're separated * I'm not doing great health wise, but I'm grateful for the health I do have * I have a home, it isn't perfect (nowhere near perfect) - but it's a roof over my head No matter where your life is at right now, remember that there are a lot of people in this community who care about you, they want to get to know you and you can make some nice friendships here with likeminded people who can do one thing not many others can... understand you! That's what first brought me to 7cups, and I take time away when needed, but I always come back because this community gave me my life back. When I was at my lowest and the mental health teams, doctors, my "friends" were "too busy" to talk to me, 7cups and this amazing community of people were here and they gave me what nobody else would - support, a listening ear, understanding, love and care. I am forever grateful to 7cups, I dread to think where I would of been without it and you have made that step by being here, and we're here. Keep strong, keep safe and remember that tomorrow isn't far away and its a new day!
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Back after almost a year!
General Support / by iCareUK
Last post
 June 21st, 2024
...See more Hey everyone! I've been away for quite some time (just over a year) while I've dealt with a lot of personal issues. I've had numerous issues to handle such as my own mental health (keeping it under control), my kids, family and just life in general. I'm not going to bore you with the facts, but it's great to be back and remember to take some time away if you need it, internet detox is good for people and after such a long break from the negativity of some of the internet, its nice to come back to an amazing, accepting and supportive site like 7cups to pull life together again and speak to amazing people. I'll see you around! Lots of love to you all and please keep safe 😊
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So I'm here, for now..
General Support / by iCareUK
Last post
 May 22nd, 2023
...See more Hi All, I'm back and lost all my badges and really don't have the energy to start trying to get them back. Had a lot going on in life and issues to deal with but I hope you're all okay. iCareUK
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Types of Abuse
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by iCareUK
Last post
 April 4th, 2023
...See more **Trigger and Sensitivity Warning** This post outlines different types of abuse that can occur online - it is there for awareness purposes. Some people may find this information distressing, if you feel this would be too distressing for you, please do not open this thread. To protect the well-being of everyone in the 7 Cups Community, you must click this thread to view it's contents.
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We would love to hear your views!
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by iCareUK
Last post
 April 5th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone! As we begin to build the Safety & Knowledge Community to bigger strengths, I believe it is absolutely vital that we get your feedback so that we know your views and this will enable us to work towards a pathway forward as we build the foundations. The better the foundations the more beautiful the tree, the more colourful it will be, and all of you are a part of the foundations. If you could please help us by filling in our feedback form, we promise we will read every response and take your views on board the best we can. Please fill in the feedback form here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdI-T_lHg5jzJpBCPiksUXlpmdQ-ALkFAfRutC3kxCioqP_Gw/viewform?usp=sf_link] We look forward to reading your valuable feedback and thank you for taking the time to share your views. S&K Community Team
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Hey everyone!
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by iCareUK
Last post
 March 26th, 2023
...See more So, I am awaiting some feedback regarding the next set of posts prior to posting them. For the time being, we will skip forward and move on to the next set of posts. These posts will help us to take a look at different ways to notice that something doesn't look right. Knowing how to RRR as I like to abbreviate it - Recognise, Reflect, Respond is crucial to remaining safe if you are put into a difficult position whether on Cups, or online. Different countries follow different policies and rules so in this case, we will be looking at how to RRR in terms of 7 Cups and what you can do to keep yourself safe online. This is inclusive of many situations you could find yourself in whether it is a chat that just makes you feel uncomfortable, maybe the chat isn't helping you and you feel you need more support than a Listener can offer to you, or you are facing issues in the chat rooms or forums. Trigger Warning! Examples will be used on this post which some people may find triggering, therefore, only proceed if you feel okay to do so. All posts in this topic will be contained within this thread. **Please do not post in this thread**
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Contact Information including Reporting
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by iCareUK
Last post
 March 20th, 2023
...See more It can be a little confusing at times knowing who to contact for specific issues, so let's take a look at who to contact, and what to do if something doesn't look right. Emails forum@7cups.com - for any queries relating to forums and subcommunities support@7cups.com - for any technical queries, it is advised to firstly submit a ticket here [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] first. community@7cups.com - you can use this email if you need to complete age verification, report user-user disputes, report people with multiple accounts or for any queries you have that are site related. Reporting Forms Profiles - If you see a profile with any information that doesn't seem right, you can report this to the Safety Patrol using this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGECC4E9NeQzQp2Skspwu6VQBJfMYB2Ag-Btm93DN5w0vh8A/viewform] Reporting a Listener/Member - If you are facing an issue with a Listener or Member, you can make a report about this here [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new]. In 1-2-1 chats, you will see the block button (🚫), this will discontinue further communication with the member and will also allow you to report them at the time. Chat Rooms - If someone is breaking rules in a chat room (rules can be located at the bottom of the chat screen) or someone is being put in any kind of danger, please fill in this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform] to request a moderator if one isn't already present. For any other queries or issues, please visit the Help Desk [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us] I will keep this post up to date at regular intervals. Last updated: 18/03/2023
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Feedback & Reviews
A great listener and generous person who tries the best
Care has been absolutely wonderful. They could relate to what I was seeking support for, which was appreciated. They didn't try to "fix" me. Instead they provided a safe space for me to talk.
Absolutely amazing and is so helpful and is really good at understanding !💛💛
Amazing 💜💜💜💜
One of the bestest listeners on cups (: thank you so much for always being so kind
He is good listen
Such a kind caring person. Absolutely love talking to them!
Great listener 10/10
Very kind, listened to me carefully
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Domestic Violence
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Autism Spectrum
Men's Issues
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