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Needing advice and even just some positivity please
General Support / by srs1992
Last post
 September 7th, 2025
...See more Yesterday my fiance and I found out we have to move back to Missouri from Maine. We moved to Maine in our RV and are parked at a house to help finish it while we build a house on property given to us. Things went bad, they went broke so did we and they can't finish the house to stay in this winter. Long story short we were told the power and water get shut off on Oct. 1st so basically we need to leave by then, we cant stay on the property we were going to build our house on and they had to sell it maybe I honestly don't know.. the conversation got weird and started not making any since but we have to leave. Fortunately we have a place to go in Missouri but.. A few months after we got here my fiance got injured and had 3 separate surgeries. Neither of us ever found jobs so its been a hard year.. We couldn't afford to keep insurance on the RV or switch registration over since it has just been parked and not moved since we got here. Does anyone know when I get insurance on it will I be able to just get a temporary tag to get it back to Missouri? Since its Saturday I can't really call anyplace to find out. Will it need to get a new inspection? Another problem is I can't drive the RV, driving my car gives me horrible anxiety and my fiance doesn't have a driver's license, we had my Dad drive it out here for us and I am going to have to ask him to help again. We cant easily just take it to get inspected because we cant drive it and arent on good terms currently with the only person we know who could.. I do have a letter to renew my RV plates online from Missouri but the plates expired a few months ago and when I tried to input the pin from the letter nothing showed up so it again is a I can't call until Monday thing. I'm sort of at a loss as to what to do with my RV because its currently registered in Missouri and expired, we are in Maine. Do I have to switch it over to Maine and then back to Missouri? Sorry this is fairly jumbled and might be confusing. I'm just in shock and unsure what I should and need to do to move my home. Thanks for reading.
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Needing some advice so I don't come off rude.
Anxiety Support / by srs1992
Last post
 July 27th, 2025
...See more My fiance and I live in our RV at his parents house, the house was and is being renovated so they hadn't been staying here until about a month ago. They have no kitchen in the house so grill outside. At first I was very annoyed by eating together because one day, the first day they stayed at the house my fiance was going to cook dinner so I didn't have to for a change. Later that day his mom asked if we wanted to eat with them, we agreed. When she got home she asked him if we, which really was me, could cook the food she got. That really annoyed and irritated me, I went from doing basically nothing, to nothing, to having to cook the whole meal and not being able to season anything besides the chicken, and having to cook it when I wasnt hungry, and was extremely hot outside. They dont use anything other than salt n pepper which I heavily season all my foods, you cant season after its cooked. I tried to have my fiance help cut the chicken but I was in a pissy mood so just told him never mind, which lead to me not really being able to eat the chicken because I have bad teeth. He got upset that I was in a bad mood and said I should be grateful, I dont deal well when things change drastically and when I have to cater to other people (meaning in this cant season food so I'll eat it) Regardless of that I prettymuch DREAD dinner now unless its raining. We're broke so its nice and helpful they buy the food but... I dont like they food they make, its hard for me to eat it because whatever meat which is usually chicken is ALWAYS dry, and really hard so I cant really eat it, no seasonings which I hate the taste of chicken I hace to cover the gross taste or wont really eat it. And just not that good of chicken so usually I end up with a stomach ache from whatever food they cook. I also dont want to cook food I dont like and also have to cook it to someone else's liking not mine. We can only really contribute a side or something if we eat together so thats out of my control. A few hours ago he asked me if we had peppers and mushrooms... he knows what we have or could've looked but his mom wants to make fajitas tonight... I've been in a bad mood for a few hours because I wont be able to eat that. Whatever meat they'll get will be tough and dry. I just got a tooth pulled and realized a few days ago they didnt get it all out, a banana hurt today while eating it so how am I supposed to eat that. I dont want to *** my fiance off by me randomly saying something rude about the whole deal. I dont want to seem rude to his mom either. I have a bit of an eating problem, I cant eat if im stressed or upset and havent been eating much in general then adding food I dont like and cant eat doesnt help. Eating when im not hungry well.. I dont eat if im not hungry so havent been eating much. They dont really cook a whole lot so even if I was hungry I feel weird about getting too much because of my fiance step dad, he eats a lot. Then its hot and eating outside is awful to me being hot and bugs everywhere. Dinner is just awful and I dont know how to fix it without coming off like a ***. While typing this I sort of annoyed my fiance because I seemed annoyed he started talking to me and I didnt really have a reply. So thats nice.... I just want to eat food I like and caneat and be comfortable.
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Hoping this isn't going to be a pattern.
General Support / by srs1992
Last post
 July 7th, 2025
...See more My SO and I live in an RV at his parents place which was a completely trashed house they're fixing up to sell. Yesterday was the first night they stayed in it. My SO wanted to make bean burgers for dinner, I said cool you can grill them and I'll just make some cookies. His mom texted and asked if we wanted to have dinner with them later in the day. We said sure, neither of us had to cook then and we dont have a lot of money for food so free meal! After she got back I was outside smoking and when I went back inside my SO said his mom asked if we could cook the food. I said ok... yeah. I didnt think and I dont think she really did either that they dont have a kitchen in the house yet so had to use our grill and would have had to any ways because of how much chicken there was and our stove in the RV needs to be fixed. Anyways I dont like when things change or suddenly do so was a bit irritated that I went from barely cooking, to not cooking to now cooking all the food and barely having ways to cook everything simultaneously. Its pretty hot out too, and im not a fan of outdoor cooking. After we ate she asked what we wanted for dinner tomorrow, so for today. We're having salmon last I knew of last night and im going to cook yet again. Didn't really agree but didnt say I wouldn't because my SO got a little upset when I seemed annoyed and said I should be grateful. Also dont want to be rude, theyre buying food and have no way to cook it. Which really the only issue was the sudden now im cooking and cooking for double the people im use to, have to cook outside in the heat and eat in it. Have to cook it when they want to eat not me. My SO did say he has trouble with eating a lot of meat and doesn't eat it everyday because of that, so we're having salmon... But I cant eat when im hot, or get stressed out, and if im not hungry. Haven't felt the greatest the past few days and woke up with an awful headache and puked. The day before was sick with acid reflux and just felt bad. I hate that cooking a meal has made my whole day kind of stressful and havent wanted to say much to my SO incase I randomly say something avout it. Just dont want to deal with that...
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Relationship Stress / by srs1992
Last post
 January 21st, 2023
...See more I don't understand what I do wrong. Was just talking about the new 90s show, he knows I didn't really watch and didn't like that 70s show. He was just telling me about it and I was listening I didn't know who a person was on it so was trying to think and was confused. Then not even sure because it doesn't really matter it's a TV show. I said a few things and then said I tried to watch it and get into it but never could, even when I started smoking weed it didn't make it any funnier. He said it wasn't just a weed show and tons of people like it I always just have to go on and on when I hate something over a few comments not really full on hating like I sometimes can do. The only point I was trying to make was I didn't like other shows when I started smoking weed and then found them funny but didn't with this. I felt like he didn't understand so said I don't think you understood what I was saying, but said he did. I have trouble communicating and have been trying to make sure I'm understood because I don't feel like I am a lot. I do have strong opinions and probably do hate on things more than I should ..but I'm also trying to work on myself and being able to talk more and feel like I'm understood. Basically I started crying over this and feel like *** now. Was having an ok day and trying to do house chores I usually have a hard time with because of depression or anxiety but now I lost all that motivation.
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Depression Support / by srs1992
Last post
 January 22nd, 2023
...See more I've downloaded and deleted this app a few times not really knowing exactly what to say and usually deleting anything I type. Trying to make changes in my life and felt like this was a good first step for me. Have thought about seeking a counselor for years but haven't had the courage to do so. I guess as of late I've been feeling unheard, or don't feel comfortable talking about my problems. My anxiety and depression make it hard to talk in general for me but it's gotten worse and making doing anything extremely difficult. Struggling today with just trying to get laundry and maybe some dishes done.
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