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Fear of flying and fear of doctors
Anxiety Support / by tia2utoo
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 August 7th, 2025
...See more Hello ladies, I had mentioned about my anxiety related to fear of flying and fear of doctors..REcently I had to travel home by flight ,again I went through tremendous fright once the plane went on a turbulence and I started reciting the whole rosary..please anybody can help me overcome this anxiety..it's nearly 30 yrs m flying but the feelings are the same..no.chamge..can anybody suggest what I should do..If I have to go to therapy..doI have to take anxiety pills..can I overcome this without taking beds also same when visiting doctors..I want to get rid of these habits because it's stopping me from moving forward..any suggestions would be recommended
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Abusive and toxic parents
Self-Esteem / by tia2utoo
Last post
 July 29th, 2025
...See more Hi friends..I know in this forum many have had experiences in dealing with toxic families..im 53 and I have lived with my toxic parents half of my life..so now I'm married over 30 years and my parents have grown old..REcently my dad fell sick and I would like to share my experiences..Over the years my father was a very dominant personality.. he never encouraged us girls(me and my sis) he was always abusive and critical with all of us including with my mom..As a kid I tried everything to make my dad happy.but he was a super narcissistic and egoistic man..he never compromised to anyone in his life.He worked hard as a bankef and felt everyone should oblige to him..I had a difficult childhood because of my dad.I don't have any memories of my dad hugging us.I think he never did..so when I finally got married,I was relieved to leave the house but when I left I didn't realise that I took my scars as well. Now m an adult and have developed so many anxieties with fears and phobias which m trying to overcome..my dad and mom never had a good marriage and his abuse affected my mom too..recently my dad fell sick and my sister came down to take care of him..He has become a puppet..while she was here taking care of him..she used to constantly tell me about dad's attitude.. He has never changed,he still abuses,he still criticses..he never appreciated what we did..but my sister had an ounce of mercy to take care of him in this old age..then when she left,it was my turn..my dad is always depressed.. he's not trying to connect with us despite his illness..he's still moody and critical and couple of times..hesstill abusing me even at this age..I always feel this is the time he should atleast bond with us because how can people keep so much anger even in this stage of life..He still does not want to bond with us but when we go for check ups he tells doctors that there no-one to take care of him despite all the efforts me and my sister are doing. What would any of you do if u had a parent who will never change despite their illness. MY dad still is not bothered about our happiness..he's only worried about his health and nobody else..he also doesn't want to connect..Your suggestions would be valuable..Thank you
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My daughter has blocked me
Relationship Stress / by tia2utoo
Last post
 July 30th, 2025
...See more Hi everyone..Just want to share my experience and what to know if anyone has similar experience. I have a 26 yr old daughter whose very brave and independent but has strong views and king size ego..She believes she knows everything and I don't know anything..she wants to have everything her way and for that she will give so many excuses to justify her way.when we disagree with her despite her excuses..she gets angry and sometimes verbally abuse me..calling me a lousy mother and finally now she has blocked me a very silly reason..Initially I used to get upset when she does this but I don't feel any reason to feel guilty..she has so amnay insecurities n complexes..we have given her the best childhood, lots of love.and support.I don't know where I failed as a mother..she fought with her father also (but npt blocked him)but she doesn't disrespect him but she disrespects me..It's been over a monthe since qe last communicated with each other..I tried everything possible..if anyone has some suggestions what I can do..
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Anxiety issues
Anxiety Support / by tia2utoo
Last post
 July 21st, 2025
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Anxiety issues
Anxiety Support / by tia2utoo
Last post
 July 21st, 2025
...See more Hello everyone..I'm 53 Yr old woman with anxiety issues..These two issues have been bothering me for many years..one is whenever I see a doctor,my BP goes up..I don't know why..secondly is my fear of flying which I have been suffering for nearly 30 years..if anybody can give me suggestions.zI have tried many things like calming my mind..deep breathing all before I see a doctor or even before I fly..Just can't help it.any suggestions to help me solve these issues
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Anxiety issues
Anxiety Support / by tia2utoo
Last post
 July 21st, 2025
...See more Hi I'm 53yrs woman and I have developed anxiety over these issues..if anyone is professionally qualified here,want your suggestions..My anxiety are of two kinds- if I see a doctor and he takes my BP.. it goes up..second is my anxiety of flying..I have tremendous fear of flying..cold hands etc..I have been having these for many years and still haven't solved it..I tried controlling,thinking positive thoughts..deep breathing..nothing helped..it's become a habit now..anybody can hhelp me here [http://help.me]
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